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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 22 Jul, 2010 05:18 PM

Feel good about yourself. Even if you don't get her at least you'll still feel good about yourself.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 04:48 AM

That's the other secret to getting the girl: ignore her. lol

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 08:03 AM

That's what I've heard too Brandon!!! Act like your interested but also like you don't care one way or another...the stupid games we play!!

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 09:46 AM

Ironically, several profiles I've seen on here say that they're tired of the games we play.:rolleyes:

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 02:07 PM

We're not asking you to ignore us. :P Just not to move so fast. It's intimidating. Women like to feel comfortable.



Everyone likes personal space. Say if I meet a man, call him 20 times a day, or start calling him names he's not comfortable with yet like "Honey" or I ask him to meet my friends, or to do all this stuff with me and he's just not ready, he'll go running for the door, I would think. lol.



Well, women get like that too.



First you get someone to trust you, that means take it slow and don't rush into something just because you're ready (maybe she's not.)



And don't forget this is an internet dating site, it's easier to get acquainted with someone and trust them when you're actually meeting them.

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 02:17 PM

Aye, I might take back my whole argument on this line, and just gracefully say... I don't understand my own reasoning, much less my whole sex's reasoning.



I can say in much faith that it is ultimately God who chooses who we are to be with, if we're true Christians,he guides us. He opens doors no man can close, and closes doors that no man can open.



If you're really meant to be with someone, and you're meant to get married it'll happen when it happens. I know that sounds like it's waiting, but when you think about it, would you like to be unequally yoked with another, by jumping into a relationship you didn't feel God was moving you toward?



Everything happens because of him, it's ultimately his divine plan for our lives.

Faith and love go hand in hand.

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 02:25 PM

I was just joking when I said that. It was in response to Rodey's post. You can lump me in with those people who are tired of playing games too. That said, at the risk of contradicting myself, I think meeting women should be fun and playful.

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 02:35 PM

Amen MsMarvel! :applause:

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The "Secret" To Getting Her
Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 03:30 PM

all i can say is that they are a confusing bunch (though i wonder about men some days considering the stupid things i see men do) and I will never understand them. lol

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 04:59 PM

I sometimes ponder about God's evident sense of humor at making men and women so different, then making us with a yearning to be with each other. I think when we become one, we fit together like 2 pieces of a puzzle (exactly what men are :-p), we're the same and fit on together perfectly one side, but the other sides different. It keeps things interesting! No secret with me. I'm easy. Bring me a Java Chip Frappicino from Starbuck's and I'm ripe for the pickin'!

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2010 07:05 PM

Babygirl you crack me up :ROFL:

I agree with you about the puzzle pieces. Men are puzzling indeed, but when there is a right fit between a man and woman and God truly brings them together --- better than any coffe drink! :laugh:

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