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Age limit email limitations
Posted : 12 Jul, 2010 09:33 AM

You guys are REALLY missing out! Do you realize that if you put age 45, I may be the love of your life but you can't hear from me if I'm 46?? Most men choose an age up to, their own? Some of us are more active and young at heart than many our junior. I've viewed several profiles today I would have messaged but "didn't make the cut"! You may want to at least change your mail settings to accommodate someone trying to reach out to you!

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Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 12:55 PM

Try seeing it this way - christians pray to God for that person that God has in mind for them then they say "Wait a second God, I forgot to give You this check list ..."



I just happened to read some testimonials from this site. One woman found her man by changing her age to one year less just so she can send him a mail. Guess what? They are now happy together!

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Posted : 9 Sep, 2010 05:28 AM

I, for one, have tried dating younger men, and was even engaged to a man who was younger than me by 8 years. At the time, I was in my mid thirties and he was in his mid to late 20s. We really didn't have much in common, other than the obvious (I was not a believer at the time).



Now I have a few younger men I am casual friends with at church, and often spend time with them in group settings. Truthfully our shared faith and trust in the Lord is our only common ground...and the most important one.



When I pray to the Lord about my desire to be in a loving, committed, marital relaitonship with a Godly man, the image He gives me is not one in which I am spending the rest of my days with a younger man.



Hence my reasoning to have my age restrictions stay as they are.



Bonnie

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Posted : 14 Sep, 2010 12:38 PM

In Reply;

Don't you think that we are too painfully aware that women like you could end up giving us a heart attack in a balcony in any movie theater that you choose? I have a strong heart and ride my bicycle 10 miles a week. But would nevertheless hate to know my epitaph included "they had to call in the paramedics to remove him from the third story of the Cineplex 18 half naked for his heart simply couldn't handle the strain of watching Bambi again." ,in five years.



I apologize for such a digression, but I would trust that you might understand where us older gentlemen might be coming from. Some of us have been hurt. Your comments in general are very easy of me to respond to. I would pray to think that there is wisdom as well as experience in in a seasoned man. I've hopefully learned my lessons in this life - enough to know I don't care to spend the remaining years with someone I cannot share the same time, space, inherent values, and spirituality based on God's grace with.... that a woman of my same age can. Slight disparities in age not withstanding.



I know that what I say is true, for through my own will I have explored both ends of that spectrum. NOW I WANNA DO IT GOD'S WAY! Did some of the greatest figures in the the bible have younger wifes and concubines? - of course. But it always cost them more. Remember what it cost Uriah and King David. Of course that's only one man's opinion.



Does that make me a bigot based on your age? Do you percieve undo prejudice? If so I am sorry. I think you may choose to reevaluate your priorities in this matter. I am sure that you are capable of much compassion and love as God gives you such direction. So why would you choose to tie your heart to a man who you most likely would bury?



I trust Him enough to inform you that you WILL find the right man - of your own age, to love and and grow old with. Look back into 1st Corn.13. Work on being what God says you are and who he is, based on His word. And He promises you that you will know love. For there is only one true path to what God has for you in your heart and only One author of love. Everything else is a lie.

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