Author	Thread: Does this seem unfair?
Admin	Does this seem unfair? Posted : 27 May, 2010 11:00 PM I was talking to a guy for awhile, and he got extremely offended that I didn't immediately respond to his messages. He said I was being rude and disrespectful to him by reading and not responding. I told him in one message that I don't always respond immediately, but that doesn't mean I won't respond it just means my response will come a few days later. I also told him I am not looking for anything more than a friend. I almost never respond to a message/email immediately after reading it, it is the same with my closest friends and family. Does this seem unfair, rude, or disrespectful? Post Reply
View Profile History	Does this seem unfair? Posted : 28 May, 2010 02:10 PM I see pixy and her friend, In his honar are repeating each other again. Great friends think alike.:ROFL: Oh, if I have to go some place or a lady does do you expect me or her to write.I think not. This site is not my life. A controling person will want you in their sight all the time. They want nobody else around, or want you to write back fast. This is a major red flag.Dennis:prayingf: Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Does this seem unfair? Posted : 28 May, 2010 02:12 PM Ladies its rude to read a message and not reply (assuming you are actively engaging a person), even if your reply is "I have to think or pray, or I�m really busy i will get back to you" thats better than nothing, cause we dont know whats going on Most men i know dont like it. It says "you�re not really important enough to stop what I�m doing to reply to your message". Now if a person is throwing a fit about it, than its time to put them in check or move on but nowhere in God's word does it say ignore a person unless they are claiming Christ and living unChrislike, but even than we are called to in love steer that person back to God....ya'll forget these are our sisters and brothers in Christ ne one who says they are a Christian and does not love their brother or sister that person is a LIAR!!!!!! According to God�s word... Ladies it seems like the world has infiltrated ya'lls thinking in this, and it doesn�t line up with God's word. If someone you tried talking to someone in real time and they ignored you it would more than likely frost your cookies. btw this isn�t the best of context to just make a friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does this seem unfair? Posted : 31 May, 2010 11:33 PM Personally I think us guys need to learn restraint. whatever happened to the '3 day rule'? Post Reply
View Profile History	Does this seem unfair? Posted : 31 May, 2010 11:35 PM Oh yeah and nothing is fair. Post Reply

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