Author	Thread: Am I silly if I walk away? I feel this is too fast/ overwhelming.
PEM4 View Profile History	Am I silly if I walk away? I feel this is too fast/ overwhelming. Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 03:05 PM Last December, I met a nice guy on line from the same culture and religion as mine. He has called and prayed and sang to me when I was down and going through some challenges. I did not even tell him but I felt the Lord inspired him to call at the right time. We communicated on and off but nothing deep just formalities untill earlier this year. . Last month he has mentioned to me that he wants to get married to me and he was hesitant before to consider me because I had 4 kids but now he has accepted that option and would like to marry me. He lives in New York and he wants to visit with me next week, then he wants to get married. He has asked for my ring size and I have not given him that information because I feel everything is being planned for me and I am not involved. He is looking into buying a house in Alabama for us to live there. He is a great guy but he does not understand that I want us to take time to know each other. I have told him that I have to be sure about anything I do because I do not want to make the same error 3 times. I think he is agitated because I am not going along with his plans. I will if he would slow down and not plan everything for me and over my head and not include me. I am overwhelm and a bit upset that he is basing my life on how he feels and now input from me. I am going to walk away. I want to get married but not this way. It is RUSHED..Am I being a baby about this situation? tell me. I need sincere feed back on this... Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I silly if I walk away? I feel this is too fast/ overwhelming. Posted : 24 Apr, 2010 12:05 PM PEM....runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!:ROFL: i've been in somewhat of a similar situation. i didn't stick around. i actually felt quite relieved after the fact. seems like he moves at the speed of lightening, there is a principle in nature.... after lightening flashes, thunder must roll! nyanda:purpleangel: Post Reply

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