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Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 10:08 PM

Why do many guys' eyes travel immediately to the chest area rather than a girl's face? Is there something that women can do to help guys focus on our faces rather than our bodies?



I really don't understand why most men are so obsessed with women's chests. It's really embarrassing for us girls! Or, at least for me! It makes me ashamed of my body, so I really wish that guys would just stop.

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2010 09:15 PM

That's true that habits are difficult to break, BUT you have to wonder if a guy even desires to break the habit when his eyes linger or if he makes crass comments.

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2010 09:50 PM

Yeah....he might be one of the perverts then...



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Posted : 16 Apr, 2010 10:49 PM

that�s a great question...

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 02:20 AM

Don't Hit...





...very nice answer!



I also think that we as a society have "trained" these "men" through our media and "role models". I wonder...how they (the men) would react if the tables were turned? I am willing to bet that they would feel uncomfortable. It would be interesting to test this theory.





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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 02:51 AM

I do not think you can change man and their lusty way to look at women. Appearantly even Jesus cannot, although he said something very clear about eyes and what to do with them when they lead to sinn...



Maybe men do not consider it a sinn when they stare at your bodyparts (and comment them). Maybe they actually think that they are doing you a favour and that should be really flattered...



Or maybe it is not a big thing as they look at all women like that...



However, you should NEVER EVER feel ashamed of your body because of it. Each of us has been created towards His image so there is nothing weird, nothing wrong, nothing to be ashamed of.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 03:08 AM

@SOS-

I'm not sure I'm understanding your post correctly, so perhaps you can clarify something for me... Are you saying that you think Jesus had lustful thoughts?

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 09:16 AM

@Pixy



No not at all. On the contrary. I tried to say that appearantly even Jesus cannot change men and their lusty way to look at women.



In Matt5:28-29 he says someting very clearly about that.

(I am sorry but I do not dispose of an English bible as my mothertongue is Dutch, so I cannot quote the verse for you)

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 09:16 AM

@Pixy



No not at all. On the contrary. I tried to say that appearantly even Jesus cannot change men and their lusty way to look at women.



In Matt5:28-29 he says someting very clearly about that.

(I am sorry but I do not dispose of an English bible as my mothertongue is Dutch, so I cannot quote the verse for you)

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 09:22 AM

gggrrrr

My message was censored because of one word... and instead my previous message was sent again....

Funny world!:laugh::laugh:

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2010 09:44 AM

To avoid it,don't wear anything low cut.

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