Author	Thread: Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication?
Admin	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 30 Mar, 2010 09:09 PM Hello all, If anyone can shed some light I would very much appreciate it. Too be honest I am saddened to learn this happens. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 17 Jul, 2010 06:55 AM Thank you so much for the info...I was beginning to think.."what on earth do they want!!!!!" I've had this happen already several times..at least someone could be honest..isn't that what we as Born again children should be...and say "found someone else".."this isn't for me".."I'm scared"..well so am I..this is the first for me after 18 yrs..God bless all of you men out there..I truly hop you aren't passing up who God has intended for you..appycowgirl Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 17 Jul, 2010 07:18 AM please clear this off my profile..I thank you for the info,but didn't know you would ost it..thank you and God bless Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 17 Jul, 2010 01:42 PM I guess they're scared just like the rest of us are and a little nervous..afraid of being hurt again..not sure if someone is being honest or just on a big ocean liner going for a fishing trip..the sad thing is if we don't trust God and have faith in His process we will miss the very person He is putting in our path..God bless all of you Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 26 Jul, 2010 08:33 PM The situation you speak of may be complicated or it might be as simple as "I'm going to reject her before she can reject me." The fear of rejection is one of the deepest fears that we all have. Rejection happens a lot and maybe some men stop communicating for the reason I suggest above. Another reason may be the fact that since they have now received a response from a woman, at some point they are going to have to be open with them. This may be too intimidating for some men to handle. Again, it comes down to possible rejection if they open up and a woman learns about the failures and mistakes a man has experienced in his life. It shouldn't be that large of an obstacle because I believe that women have made their share of bad choices and mistakes also. Nevertheless this may be what prompts some men to just clam up and not respond. I know it is frustrating and hurtful when there is an indication of initial interest and then all of a sudden the communication stops. That is when the woman experiences rejection with no explanation. That is not the way it should be but sadly it happens more frequently than it should. Also, it does go both ways. Men don't have exclusivity in this area. As long as we are critiquing what men and women do I have a little nit to pick. I don't know how prevalent this issue is with men because I don't look at their profiles. All I can speak for is myself. I have the maximum allowable number of pictures on my profile. I have full-body shots, shots from the waist up and closer portrait shots. The pictures I have display in a size large enough for women to actually see what I look like. It irritates me when I look at women's profiles and they may have several pictures but only one of them is of themself. The rest are of their dog, their cat, their horse, scenery, their kids, their grand kids or their motorcycle. They have pictures of everything but themselves. The other complaint is that even if they do have pictures of themselves, often they display about the size of a postage stamp. Yes, if I look real hard I can tell that they are female and that is about all. I would suggest to everyone on this site that they size their pictures so they are large enough for people to see them. They should also include at least one full-body shot, at least one from the waist up and one closer that frames their face. Honestly, if I can't tell what a woman looks like, it is highly unlikely that I will send an email. Even worse are all the women that have no pictures at all. In case you gals don't realize it men are visually oriented. Can't help it. That's the way God wired us. If I can't tell what a woman looks like to see if I am attracted to her, that is pretty much the end of it for me. Once I find an attraction then I look to see what her relationship with the Lord is like. Some of you may think that is shallow or superficial but that is simply reality for most men. Stephen Post Reply
Datakid View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 29 Jul, 2010 04:16 AM Thanks for a kind and insightful advice The Lord bless you Post Reply
allaboutjesus1 View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 2 Aug, 2010 04:15 AM Because most men are not truly serious about wanting a spouse. They may be Christian but they have the same desire as do non-Christian men. They like the attention and are always looking for better. They figure if I can get this much attention maybe I can get better. I say just put your information out there and if you are patient and wait upon the Lord, He will send you the man who will be "wow'd" by you. And that man will be perfect for you. But wait upon the Lord. Post Reply
mariavicenta View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 20 Jan, 2011 08:07 PM hmmm..the reaction of the woman like us wil either disappoint him or became interested him more.. But for a man who really interested the woman regardless of negative/positive reactions of the woman.. well...it will determine if he is real or not..!!!! MY CONCLUSION...it's all depends on the woman's reactions...that would change the man's reactions.. hope my answer does make it sense to u!!! God bless us all.. Post Reply
mariavicenta View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 20 Jan, 2011 08:41 PM @ ORDINARY MAN::::: Peace be with u, brother in Christ! i wonder why u r too suspicious of what might be a person's answer..and worst if u became judgmental... You will never knw the real person in just 5minutes conversation..it will tke a lot of time to knw who she is ... have u been hurt before becoz someone rejected u..?and now u r trying to take revenge???????? when a person state, she is looking for a friend...and she probably might want to be relocated.....does it mean she want to marry? of course if God's will, why not.... perhaps she want to be relocated for other reasons..like she want to work in a certain place.. who can judge people fairly!only GOD knws our heart, .. REAL CHRISTIANS NEVER JUDGE PEOPLE...PEACE BE WITH U..MAY U FIND PEACE IN UR HEART...:peace: Post Reply
Highlander15 View Profile History	Why do CDFF men come across as very interested & once the woman reciprocates he abruptly stops communication? Posted : 3 Oct, 2012 06:47 AM Found this topic interesting, same thing happen with me. I actually worry about the men who drop off corresponding, hoping they are not ill or something like that. Post Reply

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