Author	Thread: Why do you view me so many times?
Admin	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 24 Mar, 2010 08:43 PM Hey guys, help me understand. I am extremely analytical sometimes to a fault. For those who share my shortcoming, you know that you cannot properly analyze a thing if you don't have all the variables. So, please help me understand because I acknowledge that men and women many times think and process differently. Once I've seen someone's profile, I make judgments off my impression and use my discernment. I may visit once more if I want to see if my first impression is still intact. I literally have guys who have viewed me 7 or 8 times and never say hello. I am coming to my own conclusions, but thought I would ask and get some answers from men themselves. Please give me some reasons why you would view women many times and not say anything. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 28 Mar, 2010 05:34 PM Oh Babygirl, I totally can "see" your picture in my head. I'm afraid it may be a very accurate one, too. :-( Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 28 Mar, 2010 06:52 PM Piano gal, I know! I believe that God will cause my priest to find me whether through this site or whatever means He choses. :rocknroll: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 29 Mar, 2010 06:08 PM Something to ask along with this would be... Why, when someone sends you a wink or an email, don't you respond at all? At least give a short reply saying you aren't interested. I try my best to send emails back to those I get emails from, even if I don't think we will be a match. I think people are more hurt from having an email ignored than having a note back saying you aren't interested. Thoughts? Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 29 Mar, 2010 08:06 PM Princess I totally agree. It is beyond rude to not respond at all when someone reaches out to you. It's the equivalent to someone saying good morning and you look at them, turn away and say nothing. But I told Wingsofaneagle on her post a while back. I'm tough enough and understand that it ill happen. I use it as a tool to know who I will NOT be hooking up with. We have to realize as a FREE public site, there all kinds here, some are Christian and many are not. It is so awesome when you God causes you to be know who you are. That kind of stuff makes me chuckle and I brush it off my shoulders and keep it moving. I ask myself, Do I want to connect with someone who is insensitive enough to not think of others feelings and consider how others will feel if I don't respond? Thanks so much for your input, Princess! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 30 Mar, 2010 02:03 PM I agree with that as well, and I completely understand. I am tough enough as well. I was just saying generally, I am sure that some people get hurt by that. I don't want someone who isn't kind enough to say a hello back or that they don't really think we match. Thanks for your reply. I appreciate your comment. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 1 Apr, 2010 09:19 PM edw, dgrimater, and spri pretty much summed it all up. Also i've had that same visualization you had, but about women especially since there are way more guys for them to pick from. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 2 Apr, 2010 09:00 PM well i know with me i have viewed a lot of profiles multiple times. Sometimes its because they change their profile picture and i dont realize its them or maybe because they change their pic and i want to see what new ones they posted. If its a girl i talk to i may check it a few times a week out of curiousity or because i have to click it to IM. Now when it comes to somebody who views you a lot and doesnt message you it may be that they are intimidated by you but are attracted to you. I would tell you to send them a message if they are looking at your profile and see what happens. The main thing i think is that men are very visual so we like to look at the pics and we just happen to look again after the first time. I know I do and even when im talking to someone on IM i may look at their picture 3 or 4 different times ya know. Not sure if that helps but i tried. Post Reply
DAVWEY83 View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 4 Apr, 2010 06:32 PM I'm not good at faces or names. But as a insane reader, as soon as I read the profile I'm like... "I've read this profile before!" and I agree, I try working up the courage, and half the time I believe the girl is out of my league. Post Reply
JessieH View Profile History	Why do you view me so many times? Posted : 23 Oct, 2010 09:08 AM First off, Babygirl, you are awesome and wise! I just wanted to comment on the immense weight that a message or wink seems to have for most people. I don't think one message needs to be reconsidered 7 times in the first place. God (and experience) made us all much more complicated than can be summed up in a profile. The only way to learn more about someone is to TALK to them. Maybe you guys have been burned from ladies latching on and reading too much into a message, but I look at it like being in an elevator or a long line with someone-another chance to get to know a fellow child of God. We should take this opportunity provided by technology to cast a wider net and reach out to people we might never have contact with otherwise. Have a blessed day! Jessie Post Reply

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