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Genuine Male friends
Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 04:34 PM

Why is it impossible for me to have a genuine social male friend without him trying to turn the relationship into an intimate one?



I have encountered this problem several times at different stages in my life, where my good friend starts making passes at me. When this happens I get confused and avoid my friend. I had tried to pretend that it did not happen and tried to be friends as before however the situations creates other issues. In most cases I had to tell my friend that I only saw them as brothers and not as mate and never will considered them in that manner.



Last year - I lost my best friend and was not even invited to his wedding because of the above issue. He asked me to marry him twice. I only turn him down, because I sincerely only thought of him as my brother. We have been friends since 1987 and he won't even talk with me.



Why does this happen with my male friends?

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Posted : 10 Mar, 2010 06:19 PM

Hey 1babygirl,

Way to go. Cool, I have hope then.. :applause:

Thanks Totally encouraging..

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