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SacredVessel

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2010 03:32 PM

I was so excited about a Christian dating site that was free! While seeking a life partner, I thought to meet new friends and maybe meet that special one. However,the same male may review my profile two or three times yet never send a message. Why does this occur?

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DoubleEDad

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Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 09:39 PM

I feel your pain. My church is equally sparce. I know that I must trust in God's plan and wait on His timing but I can't help but feel abit disappointed in my solitude.



So where are you?



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Posted : 10 Jul, 2010 01:22 PM

watev!

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Posted : 14 Jul, 2010 07:41 PM

i can relate...i wink or even write an email and get no response...i dunno.Doesnt seem to matter if i live 10 mins away or 10 days away....I think wow this person and i are a good match but must be just me LOL

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guitar_guy80

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2010 02:41 PM

I can't really give an actual answer for all the guys on here, however, speaking for myself, I sometimes view a profile a couple of times but never sent a message because I always worry that a girl will think that I am coming on too strong...lol. I always worry that I never say enough, or I say too much. Perhaps that's part of the reason I remain single, but thanks be to God for His perfect plan for me, I know one day He will show me my Mrs. Right (sorry for the cliche` term there). I just hope it's sooner rather than later... ;-) I can hope can't I?

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WIgirl

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Posted : 13 Aug, 2010 06:39 AM

Hi Guitar Guy, I know you guys have got it rough as the ones who are expected to make the first move. But we really do want you to contact us!



The best first email I ever got from a guy was 1)short 2)mentioned one or two things in my profile that he found interesting and 3)ended with "it would be great to hear from you." And he DIDN'T call me beautiful/cute right off the bat. This showed me that he was interested with his mind, not just his eyes, which women love.



Hope this helps. Be assertive in sending that first message!

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preciouschristine

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2012 10:29 AM

uhhhh yeah they have mentioned some of the reasons :) heheh i've been here on this site for almost 2 years and counting haha :nahnah: we'll for me there are reason like i forgot the profile,or the age and location doesnt allow me to contact the person and if that's the case and i like the person a lot, i would usually view his profile over and over again hehe :ROFL: it may sound annoying but if he might notice me then haha :ROFL: who knows :yay: hehehe ,,, well there are lots of profiles that views my profile once in a while without sending me a message eventhough i already change the preferences,,, confusing isnt it?

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danny458

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Posted : 30 Aug, 2012 06:31 PM

sometimes i keep looking at a profile cuz the person's prefrences wont allow me to contact and hopefully they notice and change their prefrences so i can contact. it does seem to be all about looks, even with women. some christian women can also be as shallow as non believers..

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