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Posted : 10 Feb, 2010 04:34 PM

Do you ignore a profile if you see that a woman has a masters degree of PHd?

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Posted : 12 Feb, 2010 09:25 AM

dear folks, a phd or a lack of any education or anyone in between the two doesnt affect ones heart and their ability to love or to even be a good mate..

there are so many other variables out there and cuircumstances that mold people and make their ability to love be hindered or advanced. but education or lack of aint one of em..

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Posted : 12 Feb, 2010 12:02 PM

Bcp- Congats!!!!! And Acrozz-I think it was a girl who posted this question:glow: It takes all kinds to make the world go round!!!!!

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Posted : 12 Feb, 2010 01:08 PM

it's certainly not that i have a problem with the idea of highly intelligent women. while a ph. d or master's is certainly a remarkable accomplishment, it just makes me feel like a stupid, inadequate, ignorant grunt by comparison. and that just makes me feel uncomfortable. especially so when i had an experience where in one night i got shut down by a lawyer, financial analyst, scientist for nasa, and a girl pursuing her ph. d in psychology. it was like a club swirling around me that i couldn't get into. an ivory towered club. that's just what i think though. just being honest.

when it comes to playing my cards right, that throws me off, and i need to figure out how to not let it. there's more to life and you as a person than what your job or education is.

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Posted : 13 Feb, 2010 12:59 PM

Hey remp, OUCH!!!! Sorry to hear that man, that stinks!!!! I'd like the input of others on what I'm about to say: I think when someone has a "high-level" degree, they are doing something they feel is worthwhile, they are passionate about, and they love their work. For instance-ask anyone with a phd about themselves, and they'll give you their line of work. "I'm a vet, doctor, nasa scientist" etc.

They worked very hard to get a job that lets them do what they want to do, and they enjoy it, as well they should. It allows them time to have an active social life, home life, etc, because they are doing what they love for a living.

I personally swing the other way. My job lets me live the kind of life I want to live, which is why I never pursued an advanced degree. Ie: I make handicap mods to cars (Sorry to those of you I just lost.) However, if that were my "job" it wouldn't cover my bills, as the systems I make are one-offs, made on an as-needed basis, and well, I'd love to not ever have to make another one, but....the world keeps turning. That's my private life though. I've worked long and hard to be able to do both things, and if I had to only pursue one, I'd be a very broke and unhappy man. Hope this helps, and wow! nasa scientist? , you have some cool friends my man-skinny

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Posted : 13 Feb, 2010 01:43 PM

yeah it was pretty ridiculous. knowing what i know now, i wish i could have a redo sometimes.

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 06:25 AM

Hello and Happy Jesus Day!! (What every day should simply be...)





Personally I don't find anything intimidating by a title, after all... if was only money/debt incurred for certification in a fallen world that is all about paper and the power of the pen. It's almost a novelty to see men pay for any certification allowing them to be a deacon or preacher when the Holy Spirit is much bigger than that which moth can corrupt and rust can destroy. However, it's how the fallen world works once again.



Intelligence doesn't come from spending 8-12 years in college with a 4.0 GPA, if comes from above as God makes you and transforms you into what you will be if you allow Him to.



That said, I've found more communication issues online with those who have paid for a certification, or are in the middle of pursuing one so I'd actually prefer to meet someone who does not have a swelled head so much as one matching a heart of being humble.



Too many people that I know changed once they got their degree in college.. it wasn't a change for the better personality wise..just an open vacant room for pride to sneak in and grow.



Have a great day and God bless you. Case in point.. don't turn away a good woman with a great heart just because she works at Walmart as a cashier.. all she may need in life is a good Godly man and at that point hopefully the two will be rooting each other on and supporting each other emotionally and physically.



Cheers,

Brian :waving:

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 08:00 AM

I have found that women with a masters level degree or higher have a hard time following the instructions in the bible. I will usually go on if I see a profile that lists either of the described degrees.



I don't get intimidated by them as many of them seem to think (pride). I get disgusted by the attitude that they know better than God. This is especially noticeable in the doctorate level graduates. Maybe because most are based in psychology.



Blessings,

Leon

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 04:29 PM

Well guys, I really want to say something about now...

...But, as Thumper from "Bambi" said: "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." I think I'll take his advice for once.

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 05:37 PM

dear bc, maybe leon would of been better off to of said like brian did that the women hes come to know have been so and so.. and not put all women who have a degree in one basket ... maybe thats what he meant to say anyways..

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Posted : 16 Feb, 2010 06:20 PM

Yup, that would have been better wording.

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