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Rejection
Posted : 31 Jan, 2010 03:11 AM

Both on this site and real life as well

How do you handle it?

How do you get over it?

Why does it bother us so much? :toomuch:

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Veggie

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 07:29 PM

Liv2luv, I wish I could copy and paste your last 3 paragraphs. I could have said it no better. Remp, if you get the time read my profile about joy and happiness. When are have joy in Christ, rejection of those around us just will not seem as important. I too see myself as royalty for I am a child of the King of all kings. That makes me a Princess. I humbly see myself as no less. Just like a princess, God has his whole heaven full of angels waiting to assist me as needed. I am blessed, loved, and favored by him and so are you. No one can take that away.



So when some one rejects you, simply remember they don't really realize the blessings that THEY are missing, and it is their loss. I know that sometimes we have issues with pride. But remember I have never read anything in the bible where Jesus said pride is a good thing. "Pride goeth before a fall". When you remain in God and follow in the steps of Christ there is no reason for you to hang your head when you feel rejected. Look at it as Christ protecting you from something terrible standing in your way in the future. In other words, you are better off.



Prayerfully Submitted

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 07:32 PM

Very nicely put piano

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 07:48 PM

Prodsnapper, but there may be no problem with you. Women are a strange species. Not that that is bad. We are what we are. What one one loathes another simply adores. Never take rejection on such sites as these personally or even in real life. Sometimes we just have to pray, "Lord show me the real me with all of my faults and shortcomings". Then ask him to help you to be a better person. Don't let a woman's opinion of you shape you. She is only trying to make you be the person she wants you to be. If you allow that, in no time at all you will not know who you are :laugh: PLUS, she will no longer have the same interest in you after she has sculpted you to be the new you. She will then say, "He's everything I want but he has no backbone". What?! She will never acknowledge that you made all those sacrifices of changes for her. Or one other thing will happen and it is worse. You will not want you and you will have a happy woman but you will be miserable because you have to live life being a fake, unnatural you, trying to be someone you are not.



Hope I am not intruding but I just did not know if this tidbit of info might be beneficial :)

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Posted : 15 Feb, 2010 12:48 PM

Prayer and Reading Jeremiah 29:11. It can sometimes be difficult to get out there and ask a gal if she wants to hang out from fear of rejection. But if we are truly trusting Christ then the reality is that he has plans to prosper us and to give us the life we hope for. We need to keep our chins up and our faith forward and knowing that if you are "rejected" by someone...we can thank Him for closing the door because we are one step closer to the one that he has planned for us.



Be Blessed!!



Greg

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