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Making the first move!!!!
Posted : 27 Jan, 2010 06:34 PM

So I was wondering from a guys perspective who do u think should make the first move??? I dont mean anything sexual buy asking this queston either bc im a firm believer in waiting untill ur married to engage in such activites.....anyways I am wondering things like who should call whom first and things of this nature???

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Making the first move!!!!
Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 12:16 AM

God created men and women differently for a reason. We each have our "roles" in life and in relationships. Men in general tend to be bigger and stronger. We are also mandated by God to be the "protector" and "defender". It is are Honor and Privlege to "lay down our lives" for family. We are Blessed by God for doing so.

No woman should ever be afraid of letting it be known either subtly or overtly her feeling towards a man, yet by "pursuing" that man she has taken away his perogative and his "choice" and has "diminished" that man's role and position in their relationship.

Half the fun in starting a relationship is the "chase" and the effort and work of "winning" that PRIZE! The Champagne Toast at the reception and the Consumation later that night is so much more sweeter and very much more Appreciated when it is acheived through much sweat and effort.

Also...ladies you will get some excellent insight by observing how your man reacts to obstacles and frustration and how he handles himself "under fire"!



So...my answer is:



Big Smile from you...make eye contact (make sure he is looking at you) and then say "I Like you". Then hope and pray that he is not stupid or 10 or 15 years older than you and will probably die before you...or something like that.

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Making the first move!!!!
Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 08:58 AM

Ladies walk up to him and hop on his lap.Then give him a kiss. I like girls like that.

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 09:16 AM

Ladies walk up to him and hop on his lap.Then give him a kiss. I like girls that do that.

Sorry for the typo.Dennis

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 10:40 AM

that's a little too strong for me, but different strokes for different folks :rolleyes:

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 10:48 AM

Big Smile from you...make eye contact (make sure he is looking at you) and then say "I Like you". Then hope and pray that he is not stupid or 10 or 15 years older than you and will probably die before you...or something like that.



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Maybe you like older women, but I don't have a problem with 10 or 15 years younger, and men normally get to go to heaven first anyway. Most of the ladies' profiles I've seen on here are okay with 10 years older OR younger...it's all based on maturity levels and life experience, not age.



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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 10:55 AM

I'm very glad to hear that there are still some guys out there that feels it's their job to make the first move, or be the pursuer! :) Theres still hope!! ;)



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Making the first move!!!!
Posted : 15 Feb, 2010 12:57 PM

I think it takes a little of both

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