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Posted : 26 Jan, 2010 04:15 PM

Why is it when you wink at people or email them they completely ignore you? Ok so you aren't interested....big deal...just say so!

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Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 03:22 AM

It's all good...I've read "He's Just Not That Into You" ..."a man would rather be run over by a heard of elephants, than tell you he's not into you.." How true, how true!

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Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 06:24 AM

I agree with Paradude...since ladies are outnumbered and get deluged with approaches of all kinds, they naturally ignore more guys than vice versa.



On winking...I never use it except MAYBE to flirt with someone I've already sent e-mail to and they've responded. I NEVER send a wink first...it's unnatural I think, for a guy. Guys should write e-mails first and the reason they don't is fear of rejection or not knowing what to say in the first e-mail. In my opinion, the best function of the wink is for a lady to use it to get noticed while avoiding being the one to make first contact. I believe men were created to be the initiators and the pursuers, and ladies were created to be the responders and receivers.



With that said, I ignore winks all the time. Call it rude, but that IS my way of saying I'm not interested! I try never to ignore e-mails. Compare the two with in person meetings in real life. Seriously...isn't that what we're imitating here online? if you wink at me across the room and I'm not interested, I'm going to act like I didn't see it. I'm not going to come over and say "Hi...I saw that wink, but I'm really not interested in you." You'd think I was a jerk! But if you come up to me and talk to me, I'm not going to ignore you! Hey I might even decide I was interested after all!



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Posted : 28 Jan, 2010 09:13 AM

dear folks,

..."a man would rather be run over by a heard of elephants, than tell you he's not into you.." How true, how true!



lol i had to chuckle there.. there might just be summin to that hehe..

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Posted : 29 Jan, 2010 06:05 PM

That's only true if you already know her though.

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