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Do you think a woman should approach you?
Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 06:28 PM

Does a girl have to work as hard as a guy does initiating a relationship/friendship?



And if not, how do you feel about a girl asking for your number?



Does it make her less/more attractive?



don't you all respond at once....





Nyanda! :waving:

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eric198375

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Do you think a woman should approach you?
Posted : 9 Dec, 2009 12:35 AM

Tarasye,



Funny you bring up that analogy because one of the most obnoxious women I know claims to have a crush on me. I happen to work with her and the only thing that is keeping her from chasing me is her boyfriend whom she seems to like. It is a little scary and would be scarier if she really was pursuing me. And she is very honest about it.



You are right, there is mutual choice but it seems that girls have the final say.

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RamblinReck89

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Posted : 9 Dec, 2009 01:55 AM

Online? Absolutely. If you see a guy you like, send him a message. There isn't anything to lose, and the odds of you getting a response are astronomically higher than a guy messaging a girl. And don't just say, "Hey, what's up?" or something similarly brief. Put a little thought and personalization into it and you will get way more responses. Any guy who is put off by the idea of a girl expressing interest in him like that is just weird in my opinion.



In real life, perhaps it isn't best to be so bold, but that doesn't mean you have to hide your interest completely. Sadly, many of the girls I meet that grew up in the Church act like they're entitled to have the guy do everything while they sit back and get romanced. It's extremely off-putting. I'm not meaning to imply that you are like that, but rather I just want to say that when I meet a girl in the Church who is willing to put herself out there even a little, it's extremely refreshing. Flirting and very seriously hinting that you like him is something I'm sure any guy will appreciate.

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Posted : 22 Dec, 2009 02:13 AM

ABSOLUTELY...:peace:

I'd be flattered for a woman to make the first move. It would just be telling me that I may have over looked her, or she saw something in me that I did'nt notice.

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