Author	Thread: How much does history matter?
downtoearth View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 29 Nov, 2009 06:10 PM Guys, when you are dating a girl how much about her history do you want to hear? If there is something that happened or that they did years ago (in relation to past relationships) that has no effect on your current relationship how much of that do you want/need to know about? Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 30 Nov, 2009 03:51 PM the less the better for me. sometimes things will pop up in conversation and if I am curious and it's appropriate then I'll ask, and of course she may ask too. Post Reply
likeabigail View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 5 Dec, 2009 10:04 PM Man of God- THAT was seriously funny! Even if you didn't mean it to be~! Post Reply
glenwood74 View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 2 Jan, 2010 10:09 AM It should not matter at all. What ever you could tell a man and I mean the worst thing you think you ever did, the man your telling it to has done worse and has absolutely no right to judge you. Historical acts should not be forgotten for you do not want to repeat those things, but as far as affecting current relationships.......they should not matter. Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 25 Jan, 2010 03:23 PM Well History is history and it will always be history because it lives behind us.For me the word born-again means a lot to me,when a person is born-again that's a new leaf of the person's life that has been turned on,there is forgiveness of sin,not just that but also justification,before God the person is brand new,remember God said even if our sins is as red as scarlet he will make it as white as snow. As a person and a Christian,if she has to bring the past,i guess its just going to be something to joke over,and see how the Lord has saved,sanctified and reformed her,i believe in forging ahead since in Christ,there is no truncation or altercation is a perpetual continuum. Post Reply
View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 25 Jan, 2010 05:23 PM dear folks, glen and soulja amen.. cept solja i cant amen the last sentence you wrote cause i dont know what them words mean hehe.. but welcome to the forums anyways yawl. ole cattle Post Reply
sunthrutheclouds View Profile History	How much does history matter? Posted : 8 Mar, 2010 07:31 PM This can be a touchy subject if you let it. If it's before me it doesn't apply or matter. Then again guys might well say, well there are certain things you have to know. To be honest, you dont have to know or obligated to know very much. I think if you're up front about basics ie kids, a previous marriage, widow, cheating and so on. But people like finding things I guess to throw at someone's face in the future. Why else dig into it? if you're dating, there is a grace period to slowly bring things up. First, you should look to be friends first. Its easier to ask a friends past versus someone you think could disappoint you and walk off forever. People are people for one, and will think and or do whatever they want. Post Reply

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