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southerngrace09

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what makes a girl attractive?
Posted : 22 Nov, 2009 02:06 PM

Is it just about looks now?

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what makes a girl attractive?
Posted : 5 Dec, 2009 10:47 PM

Let's take this in two parts:



1. What makes a girl attractive?

Well, obviously, guys being visual... it has some to do with looks. However, honestly, that's not where the longevity of a relationship comes into play. The thing that will keep a guy around is her personality. Beauty doesn't stay. Personality does. It matters. Intelligence (at least for me) is a huge plus. Being able to converse about something deep and transition out of it into something far less serious is also a plus. Shared interests and pasts are another thing that help. Further, NOT nagging me about stuff is ALWAYS appreciated.



2. Is it all about looks?

Looks help, however, guys will perceive this differently. Bluntly, some guys prefer supermodel looks. Some guys don't. Some guys are in the middle on that. The flip side of this (again, speaking of myself) is a woman who puts too much stock in her looks and is lacking severely in other areas. Or let her looks become a source of pride. (I've met some of these... and I find them not worth the time. If I'm supposed to make this work "until death" then I had better make sure that I get someone I can live with. :-))



In short, the answer is an emphatic "No."

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what makes a girl attractive?
Posted : 9 Dec, 2009 11:58 PM

Of course guys are visual. So are girls. How much more visual a guy is than a girl depends on the guy and the girl.



Think about it like car shopping. The first thing you see is the exterior. Some are more attractive, while others are less attractive. If it's attractive enough for you, then you sit down inside and maybe take it for a test drive. The interior and how it drives are really what determines whether or not you decide to buy the car or not. To stretch the analogy, the exterior design is how physically attractive a girl is, the interior is a girl's characteristics (likes horses, good cook, ect.), and how the car drives is a girl's personality (or the chemistry between us). What a guy prefers depends on the guy.



As for increasing physical attraction, a lot of girls end up dressing to impress other girls. Guys like simple. A little makeup is nice, but I shouldn't be able to tell that you're wearing makeup. Go with simple hairstyles, simpler clothes, simpler shoes, etc. I can't explain it, but I have yet to see a girl who doesn't look great in a sundress. Leave the overstyled, super fancy stuff to Italian fashion models



Before I go, I'd also like to point out that hardly any guys actually find the gaunt, bony look attractive, so if that's what you're shooting for, don't. I don't want to be able to count your ribs when you put a bathing suit on.

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what makes a girl attractive?
Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 03:15 PM

not beauty at all, real beauty is in the heart woman with a great personality is the best (proverb31v10-30) a woman thaat posses those quailities in proverb 31 is attractive and the bible say beauty is nothing but a woman with good heart shall be praise.





love,respect,understanding,trust,honesty these are few things that makes a solid relationship, a true christian man will never care about look but personality is the key..

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what makes a girl attractive?
Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 03:20 PM

what makes a girl attractive is personality,submttion the bible says wife submitte yourself to your husband but this days men now submitte themselves to thier wives iam a girl anyway we brought up from christian background i learnt alot from my mother very submisive and that's it, but this days even christian guys are after beauty forgetting about proverb31, anyway may God give us sence or wisdom to know the right thing.

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what makes a girl attractive?
Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 04:57 PM

dear v gilr,, welcome to the forums..

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Posted : 2 May, 2010 03:09 PM

nothing about beauty is nice as ladies we should look after ourselves keep clean always but the first thing is knowing the lord and also good attitude based on the bible as a christian ( BEAUTY IS VANITY) so says the bible but a woman that fears the lord shall be praise. God bless

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