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DatingGuru

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Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?
Posted : 13 May, 2024 06:08 PM

Question for men only:



Do you still search for a submissive woman for marriage? Why?



Or have you given up? Why?



What methods are you using to find a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?

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Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage?
Posted : 14 May, 2024 12:52 PM

I am glad to know LD that you are the Dating GURU and therein the answer you wrote is from the Dating GURU as we well know I was addressing the questions to the dating guru.

You also answer for women under "Ask a Girl".

I guess you fit many places. Maybe you can answer for Christ as well.

But thank you for your kindness to answer for guru.

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 01:04 PM

It is all harmony here. Everything is interwoven. We are quite the stew. Everything gets tossed in.

LD asks, "I’m just wondering how you might explain this enthusiastic interrogation with its built in line of hastily drawn implications here?"

People are on here for different reasons.

People want different things.

People are looking for different things from others.

We are not all the same.

The body of Jesus, some are like Job and Isaac. (Monogamous)

Some are like Paul. (Celibate)

Some are like Daniel. (He may have been a eunuch)

And some think as Abraham and Jacob who had more than one wife and have their place in heaven.

All types are here.

Some are looking for a wife. Some are looking for a husband. Not everyone is looking for a wife. Not everyone is looking for a husband.

I am not looking for a wife. But I will like a mate.

I see marriages going to divorce.

I am not looking for formalities. And I don't want to lock into a bad deal. But I do have my ideas.

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 01:18 PM

I guess we got to step on another's toes once in a while. But I really addressed guru and hope for an answer from guru.

But if you want to answer for Jesus Christ and guru and the women too - that is up to you, LD. But I am hoping to hear from guru. I directed my questions to guru. Thanks for being pro-active in your response LD. You will definitely outlast me on this site. You find more worth in it than I do. You are 70 and still kicking. I am 60 and at "WHY BOTHER?" So, you definitely outlast me.

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 01:39 PM

Just to answer you, LD.

Guru writes: "(had to clarify monogamous because there are polygamists who visit this site to look for a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc. wife)"

So, it appears, Little David, that guru is against Jesus for being open to more than one and is against Abraham and Isaac for being open to more than one and against Sara, Rachel and Leah, and Hannah consequently.

So, Little David, I was just standing up for these in the Bible as the Bible would not be much of a Bible without these. We all know that Jesus is open to more than one.

Opinions may differ. So, then Little David, what is your opinion? Should Christ Jesus just have one? Should you just have one? How many have you had in your 70 years of life?

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 01:54 PM

W&T, there’s no humility gained when you double down with another one of your trademark rushes to judgment.

Just learn to admit when you’re wrong.

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LittleDavid

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 01:54 PM

W&T, there’s no humility gained when you double down with another one of your trademark rushes to judgment.

Just learn to admit when you’re wrong.

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WalkNTalk

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 06:06 PM

Wrong about what, Little David?

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Posted : 14 May, 2024 07:45 PM

Back to the ask a guy,



Is monogamous one at a time?

How does one claim to be monogamous while having had a dozen lovers?

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Posted : 22 May, 2024 01:44 PM

Some place too much emphasis on the submission and forget about "husbands love your wives". I believe in equality. We are a team. You scratch my back i scratch yours...so on. I have a whole different take on submission

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Posted : 22 May, 2024 02:11 PM

"Some place too much emphasis on the submission and forget about "husbands love your wives".

Nobody here is suggesting that husbands not love their wives.

" I believe in equality. We are a team. You scratch my back i scratch yours...so on. I have a whole different take on submission"

Marriage is a team effort but all teams have a hierarchy and God puts husbands above their wives.

Here are some excerpts from your thread:

"She wanted to be verbally abusive, i begged her to stop and get help because i didn't want to play head games. Nope. Bark bark bark. 

 She was conceited, demanding, immature and insecure.  She does not rule the roost, we are a team. Controlling your husband can be weaponizing marriage, and it is explicitly warned against.  I tried for 14 years. Who wants to love anyone who has to be heard (screaming like a little brat) but never listens? I stayed for a long time (too long) trying to be a good father figure to her son and a good husband but just was never good enough for her. Finally it came to a head."

The way I see it if your ex was submissive to you then none of that disrespect towards you would have happened. I think your biggest mistake was to marry a woman that wasn't submissive and if you think that marrying another non-submissive is going to be any better than I got some swamp land to sell you.

No man should marry a woman that isn't submissive to him. And if he does than there's almost no chance that marriage is going the distance.

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