Author	Thread: I need a guy's perspective, please.....
leilani View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 3 Oct, 2009 08:29 PM My question is.....when a guy views me, but then doesn't message me - does that mean he's not interested? I remember reading one's guys profile that says he's shy and he wanted the woman to message him if she's interested. Is this how a lot of guys think? Do they want the woman to view them and/or message them if she's interested? Or if he doesn't message me - should I take it that he's not interested? This is all very new to me - not used to this at all. Thanks! Post Reply
Wildfilly View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 13 Oct, 2009 04:52 AM Hey guys! If you are interested message or send her a wink...NOONE is too good or out of your league...We are all unique in our own way. Once material wealth, education, prestige is stripped away we are still just human and in HIS eyes we are all equal...And hell holds no distinction between what we have in riches or if we are royality or beggers. The same holds true for heaven...All that God require is an heart after Him...Loves Ya....Phyllis:angel: Post Reply
patou View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 26 Oct, 2009 09:27 PM Hello everyone! Yah I have a question too, why is it that some guys put in their profile that they wanted to meet friends or email buddies but when u started to contact them, they wouldn't even bother to reply? or even if they reply they don't seem like they wanted to be your friend, is it hard for a guy to say what he really thinks about a woman? Patou :rolleyes: Post Reply
CUL8er View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 21 Nov, 2009 03:51 AM When you click on My Matches, only your picture is shown. If a guy clicks on your picture, he thinks you look alright or better. If he doesn't follow up with a message; its most likely the distance is too far. Blessings, Steve Post Reply
Johnnybar View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 6 Dec, 2009 09:26 AM I too look at a lot of profiles, but I really can't do the long distance thing, so I just move on. However, I respond to every wink or email, no matter what. Seems everyone who views me is from the Phillipines!! Post Reply
MrGoodLife View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 22 Dec, 2009 11:00 PM It MIGHT mean he's "not interested." Or it might only mean that something he read discouraged him "a little bit." A guy might be disappointed to learn a woman still has several children at home if he doesn't particularly think he wants more children. He might discover that a woman smokes and not be sure how he feels about that. He might learn that she's skeptical about relocating. Little things can "tip the scales" away from leaving a message. The interesting thing is this: SOMETIMES if you let a guy know that you're aware that he'd had at least enough interest in the beginning to check out your profile and you tell him that you really liked HIS, that, by itself, will be enough to regain his interest in you! (And always remember he might have just been in a little bit of a hurry!) Either way, it never hurts to give a guy encouragement to take another look at you! Post Reply
Byhisblood View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 03:58 PM You are a little far away to say the least. You seem to be a nice lady but the distance would be hard to over come. I've tried the long distance thing and it did not work. I however don't like to date locally as many women think they have a open invitation into my house when they chose and I'm too busy for that. (I know it sounds bad but "it is, what it is". Best of luck to you :). Me Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 26 Jan, 2010 03:09 AM Thanks Leilani for posting that question. I was about to ask the same thing. I have been out of the "dating" scene for over 25 years and really had no idea how this all worked. I appreciated reading all the answers. Have a great day everyone! Post Reply
View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 01:28 PM I am a bit shy myself, so am much more comfortable being approached rather than approaching. For me once that first ice breaker has happened, I'm good to go!! Post Reply
RockLover View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 5 Apr, 2010 11:03 AM I just remember what Jesus said: "Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh." Some profiles are so scant or generic you can't tell what the lady's heart is abundant in. What catches my attention is a favorite verse, a promise, a command, a commission that the lady describes how she has lived out. Those kind of stories show what direction she is headed in life, so we kind of know if we are going the same direction and can walk together. We see faithfulness in the way you endure trials, and want to be with you. Guys , if she has done that, write and tell her how much you admire it - she'll take that as an encouragement for life. Face it, many are looking long distance, and would cross a continent to be with the right one. As I look at who has viewed me, or who has responded, less than 10% live in my state or the two adjoining ones. Patience is a christian virtue, and committed believers will use it while they write back and forth from a distance. There must be thiousands of ladies that like music, animals, humor, good food, family and church who are waiting for a dinner to get to know you better in. Tell something distinct about yourself and narrow the field for guys that really like you. God pour on you al the spirit of counsel and might - Isa 11 I am on your side. RockLover Post Reply
CountryGirl48 View Profile History	I need a guy's perspective, please..... Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 01:53 PM When someone views my profile and doesn't contact me, I feel that he is just looking or having to think about it. That is what I do a lot of times and as someone else said, he may think that he doesn't have a chance or after my profile knows that we wouldn't match. Doesn't hurt my feelings. Post Reply

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