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TO LADIES How to handle requests for personal information
Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 12:28 PM

Of course you should never give it out until you feel comfortable, but keep in mind most men do not think they need a long time to determine whether or not they like you - and in a lot of cases they will be offended if you make them wait too long. There are some good reasons why that is so.



What I would recommend when you do not feel comfortable giving out personal information is that you tell them what other women have said to me "I do not feel comfortable giving you that information at this point. May be later when I get to know you a little better." To be honest I usually feel a little bit put off if after several emails a woman will not give me her number, but I always appreciate it when a woman tells me what was said above - unless several weeks have gone by and several emails have been exchanged. If she does not feel comfortable with me at that point I will be talking with someone who does.

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Posted : 23 Sep, 2009 06:49 PM

No secret code - here's an example:



Joe's profile reads "Looking for vegetarian woman who loves watching movies from the 30's."



My profile reads "I love steak and really like movies from the 90's."



Joe contacts me anyway. Huh?? That's what we were talking about. We clearly are not what they're looking for, but they choose to "want to get to know us and see where it leads" anyway.

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Posted : 24 Sep, 2009 10:42 AM

What???????? I guess I am retarded on this or something :laugh: but how does that relate to "Y" & "X" ?

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Posted : 24 Sep, 2009 10:45 AM

Oh... I finally get it "Y" and "X" represent "whatever"

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Posted : 25 Sep, 2009 12:21 AM

It's alright - we all have those moments where we hit ourselves in the head like in the V-8 commercials. Lol

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Posted : 25 Sep, 2009 08:02 AM

About women saying they want one thing and really wanting another - this site has made that very clear to me. I used to operate under the false conclusion that women in general are more honest than men. Actually, at this point I think the reverse is true - and by no small margin. Please let me explain.

The word makes it clear that Satan deceived Eve in the garden. It also says "Adam was not deceived" which means he chose to sin.Probably he did so out of his love for Eve - so that he would not be sepparated from her.

1 Timothy 2:14 (KJV) 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.



The lies of a woman come from her self-deception - whereas when a man lies it is more often deliberate.



Also out of a woman's weaker nature - she believes lies in order to protect herself - she is an easier target for Satan than a man - in regard to deception. That I am sure is why Satan came to Eve and not to Adam That's the progression of the fallen nature or carnal side of a woman. So if her mind is not renewed by the word of God - she is bound by dishonesty to a large degree because you can not be honest with others when you do not know what the truth is yourself.

Likewise to the degree that a man's mind is reprogrammed by the word of God "and Godly principles" "rightly deviding the word of God" he is honest - and choses not to lie.



This is also why Eph 5:22 is mandatory - not optional - that a man is to be the spiritual head of the house.

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Posted : 25 Sep, 2009 08:15 PM

PUTTING ON THE BULLET-PROOF VEST AFTER MY LAST POST. BUT I WILL NOT ARGUE THE POINT.

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Posted : 26 Sep, 2009 09:52 AM

:glow:

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Posted : 26 Sep, 2009 09:56 AM

:angel:

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