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It's difficult to find a guy on this site
Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 06:45 PM

I don't know why it is so difficult to find someone on this site. I figured it would be easier on a Christian website but in reality, it's not that much different. Guys are just as superficial here as they are on any other site and in the world.



We all want someone who is attractive. That's our human nature.



Well, best of luck to all of you who are searching. I hope you find who your looking for.:)

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openminded2009

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Posted : 11 Sep, 2009 07:19 PM

Your topic is interesting, because since I have become single, I have found myself attracted to men who are either older with gray hair. Some of these men, women may not take a second look at, at my age, but it was their personality that attracted me to them. Of course this took time after talking with them and knowing their heart. I am assuming there are a few in this world who are true heart seekers. For looks do change over time, what happens later when the individual turns old? Will the other person then leave them to find someone younger and prettier?

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Posted : 12 Sep, 2009 07:34 PM

I'm having trouble meeting someone close (or semi-close)

When I find someome who's profile Interest me, there either from half the Country away or in anotherCountry!! LOL



God knows what he's doing so I will wait with Patience.

:prayingm::prayingm:

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2009 08:34 PM

most women don't seem to care, they get a good man looking and turn away. thjey seek guys that hurt them, and think there love will change them. Grow up it never haoppens. If you want a good man grab him and you'll be happy. the good guys may not be exciting but they will treat you like gold.:dancingp:

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Posted : 21 Sep, 2009 04:59 AM

Hmm..it COULD be that this isnt the 1800's any longer and if you see something you like you may need to send him a message.



It's also the Internet. No one's going to think you improper for saying "Hey guy! I enjoyed reading about your hobbies. I'd be interested in learning more about them. What say you, me some coffee and conversation all meet up tomorrow at 830?"



If youre into the girly-girl thing, that's perfectly fine. I enjoy that. I think quite a few guys do, especially the ones you'll find here



BUT, it gets a little tedious thinking to myself "Hey, someone looked at my profile!! SWEET! I'm gonna go see who!" And finding out it's ANOTHER girl from some island somewhere who wants me to pay for her Internet bill.



So I dont really check that any more.



If youre waiting for he whom you have your eye on to contact you...well..there are a ton of profiles out there. It could be a long wait.



Go make something happen! C'mon..it'll be fun! You know you want to.

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Posted : 22 Sep, 2009 06:50 PM

It's what is in the heart that counts, not on the outside. If she treats a man well, and has a good and kind heart that is the most important. We all deserve to be loved and accepted. It is real difficult to find that special and right person for us. It takes a lot of work

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Posted : 3 Oct, 2009 04:51 PM

Ummm, I don't know of many true Christian women settling for the "bad". There just isn't enough true Christian men, about 95% of them are married already? So, there wife is very very blessed!

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Posted : 20 Oct, 2009 12:45 PM

I like what you said conniep9999

my saying is if you want good women than you have to be a good man:applause:



this is what i would like to do to those who are married or separated on this site :boxing: men and women alike

tho i am not a violent man, maybe i could get some help from:MrT:



Now on the serious side it does make it a bit more difficult for us and i don't want to be in there shoes on judgement day , what are they going to say ??



I find it hard (and don't) contact those who are separated, are they still not married ?? are they free yet?? but looking any ways, they are still bound to their spouse in Gods eyes.



Ok now for the rest of us that are with the program and really free,

It is not easy to find some one in this day and age of deception but rest to sure if our hearts and ears are open to the truth there will be signs that will tell us early on that this person is truthful or not and if they are lying about being married then believe me i have found out even tho this is HUGE what else are they lying about. and that is all i have to say about this.



Lets keep up the good fight of faith and stick together and find one an other

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