Author	Thread: Giving out persnal information
Admin	Giving out persnal information Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 12:44 AM I'm curious to know why is it that men, and it's not just on this site, are in such a hurry to meet and exchange personal information when they hardly know you? sometimes the 1st e-mail contact includes personal info. I've had conversations with men and after getting to know them better I was glad that I didn't give out any info. really What's rush? Can we just get to know eachother first? Or am I asking for too much from men which is to waite and not to try and jump into another relationship. Afterall you could really be meant for eachother if you have a little more patience. Post Reply
Linnie41 View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 3 Sep, 2009 07:44 PM I too sign my name at the bottom of a message. If someone hasn't told me their first name, it's usually an oversight, and they say "oops!" when I ask for it. Lol I wouldn't hesitate at all to ask for their first name if they haven't included it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 3 Sep, 2009 10:45 PM I agree that it is a little odd for someone not to exchange their first or nickname if they returned correspondence to you. And especially after several messages have been sent. What are they hiding from??? Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 6 Sep, 2009 09:45 AM OK, the name situation is fine now...thanks for the advice! Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 6 Sep, 2009 10:56 AM Sometimes I like to go slow with a woman and other times I just fall head over heals.I am human and my approach to women is a emotional thing.Like all guys if I see a cute lady I might just fall for her on the spot.However I am slow to give out personel information. Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 03:52 AM Hi Sevanne What it comes down to is whether or not you want to find a man of courage and fire - or you want someone who is either reserved or a total whimp. I'm not saying one is better than the other - although I have no desire to be a whimp. Let me give you the straight story. These are the facts mam. Pardon me, last responder, but it has zero to do with whether or not a man is Christian that he asks for your personal info. The way "real men" think - is we either like you or we don't.From my point of view you are either an attactive woman, with a good heart & mind - or you are not. That is exacty why God made men to to the head and not the tail. Such nonsense!!! Indecision is sin! Although that is not true for a woman, in my opinion. I would not ask you for your personal information on the first email - out of consideration, because I understand women are timid. The exception would be if your email rocked my world - or if I thought you were really a mighty woman of God and not just one who thinks and says that she is. Although I may offer you my personal information - on a rare occasion - on a firstr email. Ya sister - you asked the question I am giving you the truth. Oh..by the way in addition to being my siter - I appreciate where you are coming from - so I am not mad at you but I am mad at the enemy over this. Any guy who has a little bit of a brain would rather talk to you on the phone rather than by email if he likes you. Personally I think if a guy DOES NOT ask you for your personal information by about the 5th email - he either does not like you or he is rather whimpy (has no guts) I am telling you straight - if you want a man with any fire at all - you will want a man who asks for your personal information early on. If he does not he is either so reserved or spiritual that he does not really have that much of an interest in you - or he is confident God will take care of things or you will be there when he decides he wants you. In "most" cases if a guy does not ask for pers info early on - again he does not like you that much or he is quite a whimp. As far as I am concerned anothers desire for me is the biggest compliment they can pay (as long as we are not just talking about sex). The word says "God hates the fearful." Personally - I have little game for them although I do have compassion. But again it's really simple - in my opinion you should appreciate the guy who asks for your info early on - a whole lot more than the fearful, gutless guy - or the guy who just doesn't like you that much. HEY IF THAT HAPPENS A LOT - THOSE MEN THINK YOU ARE DESIRABLE. PERSONALLY THOSE ARE THE REAL"MEN". REAL MEN DO NOT PLAY GAMES. WE DO NOT WASTE TIME. THINK ABOUT IT, WOMAN OF GOD, THOSE ARE ALL GODLY PRINCIPLES. DO YOU WANT A "SENSITIVE" WHIMP - OR DO YOU WANT A "MAN" OF GOD???? NO OFFENSE WHATSOEVER. YOU ARE A HOT BABE APPARENTLY - AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO GIVE OUT YOUR INFO. JUST GO WITH THE PEACE THAT GOD PUTS IN YOUR HEART. BUT YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE THOSE "MEN" Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 07:50 AM dear sevanna, its ok for you to have your preference and wanna take it slow on personal info.. thats all well and good for you.. but maybe you shouldnt be so tight on others who happen to wanna move ahead and find out whether someones real and serious or not.. lets say youre out at a gathering ,dance, party ,church and a man comes up and looks you in the eye and shakes your hand and introduces himself to you.. do you not also shake his hand and give your first name ? and if you wanna make sure you get to talk to him and get to know him better dont you also exchange phone numbers? well here is the same cept you can give out messingers also instead of the phone number.. you can still actually kinda talk that way too. emails to me are so slow in conversation.. you reply and it will usually be awhile before you get an answer to your question or what you had to say.. i prefer talk whether its messinger or by phone.. preferably by phone to get to know someone better.. but again thats just my preference.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 07:52 AM dear mh777, Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 08:01 AM dear mh777. oops i hit the enter button by mistake before id wrote hehe.. your words here The way "real men" think - is we either like you or we don't.From my point of view you are either an attactive woman, with a good heart & mind - or you are not. YOU ARE A HOT BABE APPARENTLY - mine here isnt that a contradiction there? and sides is that how we are to speak to and percieve christian ladies ? as a hot babe? hehe i dont think so.. if shes been talked to like that no wonder she dont wanna give out any info.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 10:35 AM That is JUST MY SENSE OF HUMOR "HOT BABE". I think people need to be less sensitive. Food for thought - and I appreciate your comment because we do need to consider other people - but being sensitive is really about being selfcentered (focused on self). What is at the root of it is pride. But again, I appreciate your comment . Anyone who knows me a little -and of course no one here does - would know that again thats my sense of humor. But I do not think that there would be any reason at all to be offended by anything or any type of phrase - unless there is some type of insinuation. QUITE FRANKLY IT WOULD BE SILLY FOR HER TO BE OFFENDED BY THE TERM "HOT BABE" IN THE CONTEXT THAT IT WAS USED. Post Reply
View Profile History	Giving out persnal information Posted : 19 Sep, 2009 11:15 AM Cattleman, Again, or in other words, no offense taken here. But I am guessing that may be you missed the part where I told her she does not need to give out her personal information. But I will also say that one thing I really do not like is how often people play judge as to what is Christian and what is not. Frankly, I see that expressed a lot everywhere. And a lot of that (probably most of it) is just pure BULL in my opinion. Is there anything wrong with thinking a woman is a "hot babe"? Heck no... unless one as a perverse mind. It depends on what your definition of that term would be. IF I DID USE THE WORD "HOT BABE" IN SPEAKING TO A WOMAN.. IT WOULD MEAN: " A NICE LOOKING LADY, WITH A GOOD HEART AND SWEET PERSONALITY... It's besides the point I think, but we are all different and we all speak somewhat different languages. Some people might consider me insensitive - That is actually true of everyone. We are either sensitive or insenstive to everything. I am "insensitive" as to whether or not people like what words I choose to describe something. But I am "sensitive" with respect to not wanting to hurt other people - I just do not take that to the extreme of worrying about whether I am politically correct or being selfconscious about everything I say. I once asked a woman on the phone if she was "Black" explaining that I could not place the accent - and that that is something I like to do just for fun (figure out where people are from or their origins by their voice ). She nicely & politely said "No. I am African American". I said jokingly, "In that case I think that you should not call me white. You should call me a - 'French, Irish, English American' ". And we both laughed. Post Reply

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