Author	Thread: how will you know?
Admin	how will you know? Posted : 28 Aug, 2009 03:25 PM ok guys and girls.. here is something I always ask people who are looking for a mate. How will you know when you have found the right one for you? and please don't say you will just know. because since most of us have made that mistake once in our lives we cant always trust our gut or heart.. so how will you know when you have found the one for you? GBU bethany Post Reply
Lovespoken7 View Profile History	how will you know? Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 04:48 AM This is a question that I have asked my sellf many times. So I asked some friends who have been married for 40 plus years. They told me that it took alot of prayer and spending time together for them to realize they are the one . We all want '' The One'' to come into our lives. I know I do. I have also know people that have told me that the moment that they saw each other, The Spirit, put a uniqueness and a curisity about each other that they never felt before. I hope this helps. Blesslngs Leslie Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	how will you know? Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 07:19 AM I'm not sure...obviously there are things I look for, but in the past with a lot of my life changing decisions I've seen that God usually points out which way to go. Coincidences that can only be explained as providence. So because of that, I hope that God would do the same thing all the time...I just hope I can see it. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	how will you know? Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 11:33 AM It is so rare. And you really have to work for it. But when it comes you can't miss it. Mutual everything: strong attraction, daily devotions so a very healthy spirit, Christian values compatibility, the desire to communicate with the other person, selflessness, generosity, rich joy. And it is just SO easy. The relationship grows and grows. Soon enough you realize that you were made for eachother. You are blessed. Then engaged in the proper time. With marriage comes the real hard work. But you are wiser now, and much more in prayer, and ever vigilant to cherish and protect. Build tall hedge rows against the world system's influences. And with the passing of many years, you are reassured, that God honored all the strong effort you gave in seeking your mate- and you are indeed with the 'one', your best friend to for all eternity... Post Reply
View Profile History	how will you know? Posted : 30 Aug, 2009 07:04 PM You'll know that you have the right one for you when you can't live without him and vice versa. You'll know when all he wants to do is be with you. You'll know when he loves you for who you are and not for what you are. You'll have this chemistry between you that neither of you can deny. It'll be as if you've found that missing piece. You know, the one that completes you and he conveys that he feels the same, he's the one. Another more important way to know he is the one, is that God will bare witness to it. You'll feel it in your spirit. It won't be like your heart because your heart is deceitful it will mislead you into thinking it's one thing when it is not. My advice is don't follow your heart. Let God lead you to him. If God is in it, it will be right and the two of you will know because you both are drawn to him. Subsequently, you'll be drawn together. I think in writing this blog, I've found my own answer to finding a guy on this site. It has nothing to do with superficiality. I'm glad you had this blog up. It helped me.:applause: Post Reply
Linnie41 View Profile History	how will you know? Posted : 1 Sep, 2009 12:46 AM I can't really tell if the people that have written believe that God has that "ONE" person for you that you just have to be patient to meet someday, but I don't believe that. I believe that God gave us free will, and with that free will comes responsibility to follow His will in the TYPE of person we will choose as a mate. Nowhere in scripture does God tell us He has one specific person in mind for each of us. Biblically, marriage is two people growing together and giving of themselves as helpers to each other through their relationship with Christ. There is no "special person" out there. If that were so, and God picked the "one" for us, why would there be any strife in marriage whatsoever? Isn't God's way perfect? Christ-like character is what we should look for in a mate. But before committing to someone, we have to understand commitment, and that starts by being truly committed to Christ and His standards. In that way, the person we pick will be the right one, because we've followed God's rules for choosing and not our own. We have to know that the giddy feelings and butterflies will fade over time, and that's when the understanding of commitment has to come into play. There WILL be times in marriage where you question whether or not he was "the one" and it's at these times you need to fully understand what it means to be married. It's a conscious choice that we make from our own free will about whom we will spend our lives with. And it's being willing, determined, and committed (there's that word again) to get through the rough stuff. And the best piece of advice I've ever been given on relationships is: Anger is ALWAYS the second emotion. The true problem always lies with the first emotion (whether it be feeling disrespected, hurt, insulted...). The trick is, figuring out what that first emotion was, and learning how to talk about it. Alright. If I write anymore, I'm going to have to start looking for a publisher. Lol Blessings, Lynn Post Reply
View Profile History	how will you know? Posted : 5 Sep, 2009 01:22 AM dear folks, when youre still happily married to em and youre puttin them in the grave .. hehe thats summin we as people cant know for sure.. only GOD knows for sure whats in the others hearts.. ole cattle Post Reply

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