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Admin	First Kiss Posted : 15 Aug, 2009 02:23 PM Would any of you like it or prefer if the lady you were going to marry and you did not kiss until your wedding day? Like, your first kiss would be at your wedding ceremony. Is that something you would be willing to do? I have friends that have done this and I am just wondering. I'm gauging your opinions. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 06:25 AM hello brothers and sisters. please forgive me as this is a question for the men, obviously i am not. i would like to ask the men a follow-up question, if i may? :rolleyes: to those men that do not want to wait until the wedding ceremony to kiss her for the first time, what would you do if you lean in to kiss her and she leans away (prior to marriage)? :goofball: btw, i would like for him to kiss me prior to marriage. :winksmile: God Bless, Zoe :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 09:34 AM Patiently try, try another day... and after a longsuffering while, I would directly discuss it. But only after allowing her plenty of time to sort out her own feelings. I mean--- what's the rush??? Being kind and a gentleman always has value, and gains greater respect- which is what all Christian men need. Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 01:10 PM GREAT ANSWER!!!!!!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 05:23 PM Out of fairness, I will tell you my position. I think the idea of waiting for your first kiss until you are married is incredibly romantic. I think it is like fairtale princess stuff. Very cool. I agree with Kristiankidd and even his description of that moment makes me more excited to wait for that day. Is it doable? Yes. Is it incredible and romantic? Yes. I do think I could do it as long as my fiance agreed. I certainly don't think there's anything wrong if people don't wait, though. I just think there is such a romantic aspect there that it is amazing. I think it would be well worth waiting for and a precious moment. Particularly for people that may have had more physical contact in previous relationships. It would be a way to present yourself in more purity to your partner. Some of us have been married before and so partaken of what married life holds. A way to try and represent ourselves with specialness to our husband/wife would be to do this as well as abstain from more physical contact as well. I have heard the term recycled virgin. People who have had a relation before but have decided to not have it again until marriage. I preferred renewed virgin. Trash is recycled. People are renewed. So in addition to being a renewed virgin, you could add this to what you present yourself as in the eyes of your wife or husband. Again, it's a great idea. I don't know if I would keep it. But I would like to. At least try. Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 05:38 PM dear zoe, never had that problem but i recon ifn i did and she leaned away i recon my little ole lips would just follow her little lips till they met hehehehe ole cattle Post Reply
Shunammite View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 05:48 PM gloryshine, tough one for me to consider (sorry I am responding, though not a guy). Short answer - I dont know. I had my original 1st kiss on my wedding day, but it was quite easy to wait then, never having tasted the fruit. Well now, been there done that, I think it will be harder to wait. But i love your comment about "trash recycled". LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love the idea of a renewed virgin and will prayerfully consider going that route with kissing too. Pray for me! I am a romantic and hopefully, holding hands and snuggling close will suffice ;-) Post Reply
Shunammite View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 05:51 PM kkid, true talk! Physical warmth may disappear after marriage so not a good thing to judge before anyways! I feel like starting a different post of frigidity... Just to hear pple's thoughts on same. Especially as it relates to some emotional causes. Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 05:55 PM Dear Shunammite God bless you! I believe God will help you keep that if you desire to as kissing as well. I am fascinated that you did that the first time. That's cool. My friends did that as I said. I know it's possible. Post Reply
tristan07 View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 06:06 PM I dated a gal way back when for 9 months and we never kissed. we were never alone, and only held hands. she eventually broke up with me and told me there was *some thing missing* that she wanted more *passion* in a relationship. Oddly, I thought we had agreed on it all and set up a standard and all. Obviously I gaged her wrong. Never been able to pull that one off again though. Post Reply
View Profile History	First Kiss Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 08:08 PM LOL ole cattle!!!!!!! :laugh: you get that kiss!!!!!! :ribbit: Post Reply

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