Author	Thread: "weak" Christian Mate
Admin	"weak" Christian Mate Posted : 3 Aug, 2009 11:42 PM I have read from several on these forum (and realize stated in the Word), that it is important to marry a committed Christian. I'm wondering is that to say its impossible to lead a man (or woman) to Christ that you are in a relationship with? My daughters have led friends to Christ, but i regret that i have not. I share a little of their reward by raising committed Christians. If i'm seeing a man who doesn't go to church, or if he does, is a member of the C&E group, then i am unlikely to help him to a committed relationship with Christ? Post Reply
View Profile History	"weak" Christian Mate Posted : 4 Aug, 2009 04:33 PM dear kt, lol they better least know how to doggy paddle huh hehe ole cattle Post Reply
godlymom2 View Profile History	"weak" Christian Mate Posted : 4 Aug, 2009 04:40 PM ...or float!:rolleyes: They won't get very far, but at least they won't go under. Post Reply
View Profile History	"weak" Christian Mate Posted : 4 Aug, 2009 04:43 PM lol Post Reply
View Profile History	"weak" Christian Mate Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 09:37 PM My viewpoint is scripture gives us a clear view of what God considers an equally yoked relationship within a God centered relationship leading towards marriage. I believe your local Christian book store could set you up with a decent Bible study concerning this subject if your open and teachable. My personal conviction is not only to you both have to be already saved but you need to be at the same spiritual maturity as well. I do not believe in disciplining my mate. We should be at the same level, to not be could leave room for the enemy to imitate Christ and get a foothold into not only your mates life but yours as well. And by the time you figure it out much damage could have been unknowingly done. I personally can`t risk that for myself. Praise God for giving us free will to choose and hopefully make good discerning Godly choices in evry area of our Christian life. AMEN:prayingm: God Bless you Sacred Warrior:rocknroll::boxing::prayingm::angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	"weak" Christian Mate Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 06:48 AM The reason I posted the reply before this one is because That exact same situation has happened to me. I was saved and helped lead my girlfriend to the LORD. She excepted him. 2 and a half years later, well after a soul tie was developed I found out that she did not really love me and that she was just using me to get her through a difficult period in her life. She had not dealt with her past relationship, and the healing of that relationship. But was more then happy to let my rescue her through our relationship. Which in the end left me divested and took me 3yrs to work through and heal from. She now is "living with someone" and we all know what that can do! And she goes to church as she feels the need. To me that a false conversion. You say how did I get all this information? From her son whom I occasionally talk to on face book. To me she was a female version of a wolf in sheep's clothing. That relationship has skyrocketed my discernment in women I now meet and my criteria I use to find a woman I will except as a wife. So NO I do not believe your relationship will workout if you lead your mate to the LORD! It would be far wiser to meet someone on your same spiritual level, in my humble opinion. God Bless you Sacred Warrior Post Reply

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