Author	Thread: Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type?
Admin	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 24 Oct, 2017 01:27 PM I've been on here for many years. It's true sometimes you don't know a person is your type until you get to know them. But there is some definite things we are not wanting in a companion. Anyways usually when I respond sorry you are not my type guys usually say something hurtful then block me. Instead of saying something like ok thank you for letting me know God bless. I get threats.. like this particular message. "after reading your profile i see that your going to be single for the rest of your life, cursed by the LORD in lonely nursing home & dying in a empty shallow grave!... GOD opposes the proud but gives Grace to the humble. {James 6:4} Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall. {Proverbs 16:18}" I did report him so I hope other ladies don't have to deal with this. Anyways just don't understand why some guys on here are like this. Also if you are wondering why we don't reply back to you if you are not our type it's because theres too many guys like this on here and we just don't want to deal with it anymore. Oddly enough you won't get chewed out for not replying it's only when you tell the truth about how you feel. Post Reply
donduckie^ View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 12 Nov, 2017 03:13 PM I prefer a clear answer than being just ignored. So if someone says "hey you are not my type" i would really appreciate it. Anyway here.. it is not different from any other non christian site. When I came here I thought, people here should be more kind und have more understanding but no. And even some use nice biblical quotes in their profiles... but it means really nothing for them... just empty words used to try to sell themselves better. Yep. I'm quite disappointed. But i still can laugh about it. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 18 Nov, 2017 02:03 PM I think that to just come out and say to someone your not my type is a little harsh. Its possible to let someone know who don't wish to be in contact without being hurtful. Kind words turneth away wrath... Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 22 Nov, 2017 05:18 AM SpookyGrey... That guy was a nut, although it's possible he just had a breaking point moment. it happens. But, then an apology was in order and maybe some self-examination into what made him burst out like that to that extent. As for me, I prefer an acknowledgment of my messages. I send clean, normal messages to the women on these sites and am insulted when I am not acknowledged. You don't just walk away in silence in real life, so why do it here? This is one thing I hate about the virtual world. It is too easy to blow people off. Then again, this poor woman should not have been hit with that verbal machine gun. When I hear things I like, I start to understand the argument for not responding. Unfortunately, I would like to at least be honored by acknowledgment of my messages, but it appears that men who forget Whom they represent have ruined that for me. In answer to your initial question, it's insecurity / poor self-esteem. You can argue that sinful pride is in there, sure, and it is, but self-worth is an important psychological need, and so few of us, perhaps none of us, have it in the amounts we need it. So, we project our own inadequacies on others, and see it as emanating from them, when we were hoping for validation instead. I'm not justifying, I'm just explaining. I don't like women not responding, but after that quoted response, I have to understand why. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 22 Nov, 2017 05:22 AM donduckie... I agree with you 100%. I prefer a response, diplomatically worded, sure, but a response nonetheless. Then again, I understand a lady who's gun shy after someone wishes them all kinds of curses upon their lives. I think I'd back off from responding too. Just sucks for the rest of us. Post Reply
donduckie^ View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 27 Nov, 2017 02:11 PM @keithiepoo one doesn't make a rule ;-) but such guys put us all in the same sack. Anyway, I am really disappointed of the women here. A diplomatic and laconic: "Thank your for your message" would be enough if they cannot directly say no. Even a preacher woman has lot of prejudices because I am separated.. Where is all that she preaches from the bible about Love ? Where is Romans 12:10 or Romans 13:8 ? Where do come all her preaching words and where do they go? John 8:7 Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do some guys go overboard when you tell them they are not your type? Posted : 2 Dec, 2017 10:36 PM I know this doesnt sound nice but its because most men/women on here arent very mature and havent been all that successful in life so they dont know how to handle dissapointment... thats why there on here. just my opinion Post Reply

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