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osol_letse

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Posted : 15 Oct, 2017 04:12 AM

hey guys,

do you really know what you want from the girls you look for? if so, what that is/ those are?

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Posted : 22 Oct, 2017 01:54 PM

Not all of us have a long list....actually, i don't know if you'd even call mine a list as I look for three traits...honest, kind hearted, not in a relationship. There also has to be a spark, an attraction but I can't tell that from words on a screen

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Posted : 22 Oct, 2017 04:57 PM

"And see, today Arabs are the descendants of Ishmael. Had Abraham obeyed God the first time, there would be no Arabs today, no terrorists, no suicide bombers and all that"



Did I read that right silver? smh

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osol_letse

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2017 08:07 AM

I agree with you Melissa.

I posted this stem its because, men do not really say what they feel and what they want. id say, only a few would open their minds and hearts in this. and its quite extraordinary if most of them will really air their side on this. and so some had really done it. now I'm hearing it on their own perspective. :)

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2017 10:06 AM

Oh well I'm pleased to see I'm not the only only one taken aback by silvers comment.

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Posted : 31 Oct, 2017 03:31 PM

We all know what we want, but what we all want is always someone that does not exist. When we make a list of what we want we find that there are often many traits or qualities that are not on God's list of things to look for. Marriage is to mimic the relationship between Christ and the Church. Jesus had a list to, but He loved us anyway and chose us. Far to often we let our worldly desires determine what God's best is for us, and we wait, and wait, and then we wait some more. Until it's too late. We have passed on all the people who were willing to accept us, flaws and all, because we were looking for someone flawless(ideal/best fit). God did not create any one person for another. He created us for His own. He gave us the freedom to choose to love.

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2017 12:28 AM

I hear ya Jcmaster. Yep, Jesus has the list too, problem is, none can match up to his list, but He did a way to let His bride lived up to His expectation. Thus He is still at work to make His bride pure till she's ready to meet Him. I also believe that marriage is a picture of what Christ did for us Christians. So is the man who knows and experiences God's love must mimic Christ's love to His bride.

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2017 10:47 AM

Somehow we hope for someone whos perfect.. But surely when we meet that person.. Would be an imperfect one.. But if the person is from God.. he/she will be best for us.. reality check is good.. But should we really settle for less when we know d best is still out there?



Btw i do believe JEsus also loves ishmael's descendants

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2017 07:08 PM

hi confusedlonely, thank you so much for your input.

We all want what's best for us and so does God. But how then a man can determine if that his best is out there and the one who's in here is still not the best one? His preference on what he wants will tell him this is not for me. I would nto settle for less with this, i'll wait for the best one. That is if the man really knows what he wants.

as to descendants of Ishmael, they are part of the Abrahamic covenant too. I believe God still have His hand in both of Isaac and Ishmael descendants.

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