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Cross that bridge when you get there or overscrutinise points of differences?
Posted : 17 Apr, 2017 05:31 AM

Hi,

I'd like a guy's view point on this matter.

When meeting and getting to know someone, would you just go with the flow or use that time to evaluate how compatible the relation can be? I obviously mean after praying over whether to accept the invite in the first place.

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Cross that bridge when you get there or overscrutinise points of differences?
Posted : 30 Apr, 2017 06:48 PM

I know I'm not a male, but I know few who are nice but don't really mean "I'm curious" when they respond to a lady. I do respond to some, but it doesn't mean out of curiosity. I can state one example, boredom. So, this doesn't apply to all even to woman like me. It may take a long while to determine who is a real person and who are here even in forums to make a "man" sound I'm always right.

If I stopped replying to a certain person it's because I don't want this person to get the wrong impression that I see him more than a friend, that is pretty clear. Don't get the wrong signal. Even some men does that.

In giving email and phone number, I was not aware before that this should not be given right away to anyone for security purpose and some who may be just like me regardless of gender might do the same.

Voice is not all about it if all he is talking about is simply nonsense, at least for my case. The answers you have given are but your own assumptions how you generalize "men" or maybe "women" next. We live in a "real world" and some percentage of both men and women are homosexuals.

If someone is a "Genuine Christian", you can tell but it's still difficult to tell to someone who is totally a stranger. "It is God who judges justly, who are and who aren't." This is mentioned several times in the Bible both old and new.

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Cross that bridge when you get there or overscrutinise points of differences?
Posted : 11 May, 2017 03:48 AM

Nicely put, thanks :) quite a dating map there.it does make sense to go gradually.

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