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Posted : 5 Apr, 2015 07:46 AM

yeah i called them that coz they are exactly that. i have put them in quotes so i need u to understand. most men here pretend they are true saved holy pure christians but they arent. most will lea u on letting u know that they are very close to the almighty while all along they'v been waiting for a chance to take you to skype,whatsapp,kik and facebook where they can ask for ur nude pics and sexting. they want to video chat on skype then tell u to strip so they can see u. why do u exploit women like this? cant u join other sites where they allow such immoral behaviour?.these days wen u say u r a christian its hard to know wat u mean. God will punish u in his time.

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Posted : 25 May, 2015 05:45 AM

Hi there,

I guess you would classified me as a sexual Christian then,

I was free of sexual acts for over 23yrs, I met someone of a very popular Christian dating site who made me feel special, I thought she was the one for me after many years of waiting, she told me all the things I wanted to hear which made me feel really good, and she asked me for sex, I thought I will hold it till we were married, but after repeated asking, I thought why not as I really loved and liked her and believed she was the one for me, we had sex for awhile then she dumps me for someone else in her church, she came back cry on Easter Sunday night crying and saying how sorry she was for how she treated me and stuff, but I forgave and accepted her back, few weeks after we had sex again, them she dumps me again saying we are not compatible, I admit am not saying much, but I can't be more graphic than I've been now, i went to that site because I wanted someone for life, not for sex, when I met her I told all the people I was friends with on there that I've met someone, and some of the ladies on there still wanted to keep intouch, I said it was not appropriate, so I cancelled my subscription, she did not, but I did not question it at the time, even when she was always too busy for me at the time, I thought nothing bad about her, I thought I would do my best for her, the things we talked about that we would each sacrifice to make us work, I did, she did not, I joined this site after she dumps me, she is now of this site with a nice innocent looking profile, am sure she is very successful in picking guys like me, but hey, she is a woman, women do no wrong, it's just guys that are the sexual Christians, it's people like me that are the fake Christians, is people like me that you should stay away from, not the all sweet perfect women who can do no wrong, right? sure, am the bad Christian, am the one that has lost my testimony, but who cares? it's my fault, people like me are the wolves in sheep clothing, i am not trying to make any excuses here, yes am ashamed of what happened to me and my part in it, I can no longer say I haven't been sexual for a very long time, because I remember my guilt every day, i cannot turn back the clock, yes I should have known better, but I guess I should know the church is not so forgiving, thank God for Jesus that God is more forgiving and merciful than the church . you want to keep on condemning me? fine, I can't stop you and I won't stop you, God knows my heart

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Posted : 25 May, 2015 04:55 PM

Londonjoe: I am so sorry that your heart is hurting. We all make mistakes in our walks with Christ and sometimes those mistakes are big mistakes! I appreciate you coming forth to share your heart. Now your other post makes sense to me.



It is NOT only men who fall to this sin!

Who do you think these heterosexual men are having sex with? LOL



There are plenty of women and men that not only fall but keep on sinning with sexual immorality! I see it all the time!

They have fallen from grace. They may not have ever truly repented in the first place which means they are not reborn again in Christ!! There are alot of name only christians in this world. Satan has placed his tares all over everywhere to corrupt the church.



Im glad that you stepped up and spoke out about your sin. You didnt have to do that but I am very glad you did because I know God will use your confession to help others. I know by you sharing your heart with others that God will have all the praise,honor, and glory!!



Your public confession shows me maturity on your part and it also shows humility. It shows me you are broken by your actions. The good news is God is on the thrown and he will redeem you with your true repentance! God loves you! God is so merciful to his children.



God takes us and molds us. He puts us through a refining fire brother! The important thing is that you learn from this. Jesus is our teacher and our counselor. He teaches us through his word.



I would also like to address the comment about the church condemning you.



The people are the church. I am the church. You are the church. I will not condemn you. True followers of Christ do not condemn but we do as instructed in James. We gently restore a humble brother or sister back into the fold.



Satan roams around like a roaring lion but he comes as a sweet sweet lie. He makes sin look so delicious when in fact it is opposite of what God wants. He whispered in your ear that it was okay when in fact you knew it wasnt. He helps us to rationalize our sin. He is crafty and he has had over 40 yrs to get to know your weaknesses . He has had 2000 yrs to perfect his lies. That is why God calls us to sow towards the spirit and not the flesh. ie Filling our spirit with alot of Bible study.



Satan wants to kill,steal, and destroy. He is successful with many. The Bible tells us ...........Matthew 7:13"Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are MANY who enter through it. 14"For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are FEW who find it....



Id advise you to stay away from the gal you sinned with. God will deal with the Delilah if she is truly his.



Paul spoke to the corinthians about this kind of thing:



1 Corinthians 5:9

I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people--



He is speaking of the immoral brothers and sisters not the world!



Ephesians 5:11

Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.







The good news is that YOU can make it your LIFE to strive to be more like Jesus. People fall because they take their eyes off of God. They have a serious need to fill themselves with everything that comes from God .



God has called us to be holy . He wouldnt ask us to do anything that he cannot help us achieve.



I posted a few studies on the boards about sexual purity. I think this is an epidemic amongst the church. This post is timely and I pray that it helps many believers back on track. God wants his kids to be obedient. We are in the last church age:laodecia.....Jesus is coming soon!



Gods grace to you



Look up! For your redemption draweth nigh!!!

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Posted : 1 Jun, 2015 01:53 AM

I had an experience with a sexual christian on this site. We exchange emails and all was well. Then he started sending me inappropriate photos. Sad because you thought you found someone special then this things happen. :(

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Posted : 1 Jun, 2015 09:35 PM

every man,every CHRISTIAN man of God,should be given an apology.because the bad experiences you obviously have had. and i'm truly sorry for your experience. to judge all CHRISTIAN men and condemn them,that is ludicrous. if you have that prospective how could you have a good relationship? how can you be considered a christian with that point of view. if you read the BIBLE you would know that man asked God for woman. and that is the reason woman are/were created Adam asked GOD for a help mete and God created woman out of man, and i am not preaching but if you have a bag of apples and 1 goes bad do you throw all the apples away or just remove the bad one. please don't let a few bad apples make you scornful of all the GODLY MEN.

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2015 04:21 PM

sloane: In the defense of the OP.

The OP isnt talking OF truly righteous Godly men! She is talking ABOUT the "most" . The men who are led by their flesh ie sexual! Did you even read her post in its entirety? She never said "ALL" men. I agree with her on the "most" . Shes speaking of men who follow their sinful desires instead of the spirit. ie Gal 5 16-21.



In fact lets go to another scripture and see what Jesus had to say about the number of true followers. Times dictate laodecian church age. We are in the age of mass apostacy and Most "christians" are lukewarm. FEW ENTER THROUGH THE NARROW GATE......You owe her an apology!! She had every right to voice her dismay. This kind of thing happens to women and men alike but more often with women. The reasoning behind that is obvious. Noone is above being fooled at least once! Satan comes as an angel of light. Your reference to adam and eve has nothing to do with this. Your reasoning is flawed.

Matthew 7:13-14

13"Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. 14"For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are FEW who find it.

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2015 04:44 PM

Amen Blondie...well said:applause:!!

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2015 09:10 PM

hjmp I love you sister! I cant wait to take a walk along the river of life and have us a good ole chat!! Hugs:angel:

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2015 10:04 PM

:applause:...Yup~A~Roo...couldnt Agree more with the ladies!!!...Gotta read the intire post to understand what is being shared�or said�cause we as mere humans sometimes jump to conclusions before we got all the info�Most and All is nowhere meaning the same thing�and I don�t find in Scripture anything about a �sexual christian�� just about �sexual immorality��



:waving:...Welcome to the Forums Sloane12�I was re~reading what you posted and noticed you shared ~

� if you read the BIBLE you would know that man asked God for woman. and that is the reason woman are/were created Adam asked GOD for a help mete and God created woman out of man, ��

*** Truly�No disrespect Sloane12�I was reading the Bible and I honestly don�t find in Scripture anywhere were Adam �asked� GOD for a help meet and it must be clarified for the folks reading here what the Word says so we all be on the same page�



Gen 1:25-28

25 And God made the beast of the earth after his kind, and cattle after their kind, and every thing that creepeth upon the earth after his kind: and God saw that it was good.

26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.

27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.



Gen 2:15~23

15 And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it.

16 And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat:

17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.

18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

*** GOD said it is not �good� that the man should be alone�Adam didn�t ask of GOD anything�

19 And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.

20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;

22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.

23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

*** Yall hava Totally Blessed day or night wherever ya are in the world!!! X <>< O

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2015 10:32 PM

Godsjude!!!



You nailed it sista. I am so glad you addressed that.



Its good to be corrected on wrong thinking according to the word ya know?!:laugh:



� if you read the BIBLE you would know that man asked God for woman. and that is the reason woman are/were created Adam asked GOD for a help mete and God created woman out of man, �





Big hugs from Az !!!

Gods grace to you!

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2015 11:04 PM

The Bible scriptures you used GodsJude, were very timely and self explanatory...thank you! And Blondie...what can I say my friend but that when finally seeing the face of Jesus, one of the few things left for His saints to do is celebrate, worship and share God's love with one another and with love ones who've gone on before them:angel:!!



What a meeting that will be!! Love you too and God bless!

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