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Admin	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 25 Jan, 2015 03:13 PM I have contacted many nice great Christian men here but only 3 or 5 who respond me back, make me wondering, are there something wrong with me my profile lol:rolleyes::glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 2 Feb, 2015 05:51 AM Hi Bro You make me smile reading your compliment, haha thanks you for your interest for this topic. You are guys too much serious when i said flirting men in good ways.. as for me it is nice way to do it to a single guys in our comunity here lol Ok here i copy you an example for an email i just sent to someone lol:glow: To: jcb3 Subject: great pictures with personality :) Message: Hi great guy You have such great smile, can i have it lol Stay blessed in Christ! Tria Post Reply
View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 2 Feb, 2015 05:16 PM Those the answer to you guys, blondieinthehouse and osol Post Reply
1mountain View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 8 Feb, 2015 10:59 PM First to Blondie all I have to say is the book of Ruth. It's nothing to do with your messages to them. I only get replies to one in thirty notes I send. It's all genders, races and the like, for some odd reason the majority of people don't respond to messages. Common complaint, as common as 'why don't people read my profile before messaging me?' or 'why didn't this person say anything at all about themselves?' Trust me they aren't disliking you messaging first they're just not responding for whatever personal reason. Post Reply
RD63 View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 26 Feb, 2015 09:14 PM My advice for every woman who is on a dating site is to send a wink to every man she is interested in learning more about and possibly meeting and then wait for the man to reply. It's sort of like fishing. A fish doesn't always bite simply because you cast your line in the water. Post Reply

Marcouse View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 11 Mar, 2015 01:36 PM Just think of first contact like a heat seeking missile, "fire & forget". If anything happens go from there, if not I've never heard of any problems coming from a relationship that didn't happen. Post Reply
femme15 View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 13 Mar, 2015 09:45 PM Good things come to those who wait, sometimes it's just a matter of timing. Remember God works in mysterious ways, just trust Him, He may be in the process of writing a good love story for you and not yet done with it. Hang on, Mr. Right will come in the most expected time...:hearts: Post Reply
femme15 View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 14 Mar, 2015 02:33 AM Dang! in the least expected time I mean, if you keep on expecting it's like your just trusting your self, hope is different, you are entrusting everything to God :angel: Post Reply
Keonikane View Profile History	is it wrong if i contacted a man first? Posted : 3 Apr, 2015 08:23 PM Hey, it happens to many people, even me. I usually message some of the women who had viewed my profile first and I find interesting with something like, "Thank for taking the time to view my profile! May God bless you in your endeavors of your search!" Then... nothing. I may get maybe one out of 8 who reply back. Hehe, I also think that it's my profile, pic or even my ethnicity, which might be your case too. Then again, I have a novel of a profile so maybe they have a short attention span and so leave, Haha! I personally don't think that it's wrong... who knows, maybe the guy is shy or feels intimidated by you for some reason. Maybe another girl may think that you are being flirty, but you are asking guys right? I'm a guy and say that it's fine. Don't take it too hard. Now go back to your hunt! Haha! Happy hunting! Post Reply