Author	Thread: Initiator
Shunammite View Profile History	Initiator Posted : 21 May, 2009 05:57 PM So I may be old fashioned or something but I still think a man should be the initiator of a connection. I personally have never had a crush on a man but even if I did, I wouldnt feel right saying the first "Hello". Afterall scripture says he that FINDs a WIFE. Not he that is found of a wife... Am I way too conservative on that one? Guys, how do you perceive a lady who initiates contact with you? Ladies, what's your style on this? Please share your thoughts. Post Reply
View Profile History	Initiator Posted : 27 May, 2009 05:52 PM Abundantly, Amen my sister! Blessings, Lydia Post Reply
View Profile History	Initiator Posted : 5 Jun, 2009 11:01 PM I agree with you Shuna! I suggest guys to listen to Perry Noble's message called Beautiful-A Wife Worth Finding. It is directed toward women, but there are many great tips for guys in it. He states what I, and many girls, want in a guy. You can get the message on itunes- search NewSpring Church Podcast. Here is a quote from that message: "If you are going to ask a girl out, the first thing you need to do is, you need grow a set. Because there are way to many Christians eunuchs walking around the church today. We don't need feminized men, we need MEN....She don't need a eunuch she needs a man. If you want to ask her out, you don't send her a obscure e-mail..., don't sent her a text, and don't send your friend to do it that was awesome in the second grade. You see a girl your interested in you walk up to her an you look her in the eyes, you introduce yourself and you say 'I don't know if you know this or not, but you are the most beautiful creation God has ever made and I would like to take you to dinner tonight, and if I can't take you to dinner tonight I want to take you to breakfast in the morning, if I can't take you to breakfast in the morning I'd like to take you to lunch, listen girl I would do tea and crumpets on your door step if I could just spend some time with you.' Then you show up on time. Now she is not going to be on time, but you don't need to say a word about that. She's going to be late and that's fine because she's a woman so you just keep your mouth shut. Then you take her out to the car, you open her door like a gentleman. You put her in the car, you drive somewhere, have the date planned, don't say "what do you want to do", have it planned, show some creativity, pick the restaurant, pray over the meal, don't take her to the movies, unless you are a loser, because you'll learn nothing about her, take her home, don't try to kiss her, hole her hands a pray with her, then get in your car and BEG God that you get that opportunity again. That's how you find a wife." Post Reply
AmberLynn619 View Profile History	Initiator Posted : 6 Jun, 2009 03:52 PM Ginabet, I love your quote! It's not old-fashioned, it's natural! Men pursue women. If a man doesn't have enough confidence to ask you out, he doesn't have enough confidence to date you. Great topic. Amber Lynn Post Reply
View Profile History	Initiator Posted : 6 Jun, 2009 10:07 PM I totally agree with you on that one, I feel the man should make the first move....I guess I'm just a little old fashioned. But it seems like in this day and age a lot of the men expect us to be initiators! Post Reply
View Profile History	Initiator Posted : 15 May, 2010 06:33 AM Ginabet, I honestly pray for such a guy for each and every of us here on CDFF. Where are they, though? Do they exist at all? Pour some comfort and hope into my heart, please :) x Post Reply

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