Author	Thread: Is this shady ?
Magdalena80 View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 24 Jul, 2014 06:12 PM Hello everyone! :) Goodevening . I just have a question and am seeking opinions , all are welcome . If you were corresponding with someone that seemed very interested in pursuing you , and after taking the time to write them a lengthier /more in depth message and you didn't hear from from them anymore......They remove you off their favorites list ,(which one has to go out of their way with intentions to do so), what would you make of this ??? I had someone do this to me , he was sort of rude and didn't bother even replying back a quick hi , nothing , just silence.He purposely removed me from his favorites......Which I will admit I thought was a little shady , I did nothing to deserve that. He was silent for about a week , then he called me out of nowhere !!! I am thinking he didn't like me anymore , and did some shopping around , probably talking to other women . An oh how big of him to give me a chance realizing that there are few prospects that meet his requirements. I also would like to add that he is from another country , supposedly here on a work visa . He isn't American /citizen, which some might say what does that matter . I think it does to an extent , it raises my doubts & creates a bit of distrust/suspicion to be honest. My maine focus was that he removed me off his favorites so easily /rudely, after I wrote him a nice letter on here . To just be dismissed like that after telling him more about who I am , hurt my feelings and concerned me as to the kind of person he is . I felt he was playing mean games , so I blocked him . He decides to call me , days later..........Mentioning that I blocked him . He acted innocent and didn't really own up to his part . I believe God protects me by providing me with enough sense to keep jerks away . I have also experienced prayer in that I have asked God about someone's intentions , to have that person reveal who they truly are very soon afterwards. I know God loves me & is here for me , no doubt it has been proven . My question is , do you think God is having me pay attention to the ''favorites' issue , (as little as it may seem) , because in fact it is not so little after all ? Is this God's way of showing me the truth in the matter ? Or should I continue talking to this guy ? He is very handsome , has a great degree & career , (so he claims) , why is he single at 31 ? Granted I am still single myself , but haven't you ever wondered if someone is so incredible then how come they are still on the ''market'' ??? There MUST be a reason. Does it add up ? I am skeptical & his behavior makes me question his sincerity. If anyone has experience with any of this including foreign people in America , PLEASE I'd be grateful if you could respond with any advice /opinions regarding my situation . Thank you for taking the time to read my post here !!! May God's Grace Be With Everyone Of You ~:angel: Post Reply
Javon74 View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 21 Aug, 2014 08:10 PM I'll give my opinion on one of the questions you inquired about. Whenever we are dealing with signs, confirmations, and advice from God, if it aligns with his word and you have prayed about it, please receive God's blessing. I do not feel you're over thinking it at all. If he removed you off his favorites, there was a motive. It's an old saying but so true even in the spiritual realm, action speak louder than words. God will sometime give us small signs, and who are we to say "You're over reacting". Be careful because the scriptures forewarn us about ungodly counsel from man. This is a quote a preacher stated recently, "You can't estimate what God can do in someone else life"! God is so Powerful, and can use anything He deems necessary to get the point across. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 28 Aug, 2014 07:25 AM Might I advise you to not try to figure something out when you can't know for certain the answer. The only way to know exactly why he removed you from the favorites list is to ASK him directly. Maybe he never removed you, but actually just turned off the ability of others to SEE who he has on his list. That would make it APPEAR that you aren't on his list when the truth might be different. Or perhaps he doesn't use the list the same way you do. Maybe he does what I sometimes do. Sometimes I do a search and add people to the favorites list so I can go back and review them and then decide which I'd like to contact. Then I remove someone after I've contacted them because now they are in the inbox. Those are just two possibilities that have nothing to do with YOU personally. You are creating an offense when none was intended. That is a bad habit to have and will leave you often miserable and full of self-doubt. Post Reply
HoosierHomeschooler View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 28 Aug, 2014 07:41 AM Good points, Katydid82. I wish the list were called "bookmarks" as "favorites" is rather a superlative term. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 28 Mar, 2015 08:28 PM I don't know if women over think things or not. I met a woman on here recently and I had to remove her from my favourite list and block her because she began exhibiting an attitude and behaviour that a Christian person should not have. Everything seemed okay at first. We were getting along quite well but just because she couldn't get her own way she began to call me all sorts of names and became belligerent. She wasn't after money by the way. Just let me point that out before everyone thinks it was about money. She wanted me to change travel plans with family members just to suit her needs, plans I had made long before I knew her. Mind you we only know of each other for about a month now. Post Reply
Prophetesslaura1968^ View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 7 May, 2023 05:13 PM Greetings u are dealing with a narcissist demon and u need to be careful. God is showing u who is who and what they are. But pls remember we don't wrestle against flesh and blood but principalities and wickedness and rulers in high places . Take your eyes off of the natural and see with your spiritual eyes . I would say disconnect but u need to pray and ask God what to do and whatever He tells u that u should do ,. But don't be like the Bible says silly women led astray by their own lust .. continue praying and fasting. I pray God answer u speedily . This spirit will lure u in to believe he is heavens best gift to earth it is the character of Satan himself . Watch and pray. God bless pray this helps u . Post Reply
Prophetesslaura1968^ View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 7 May, 2023 05:27 PM I would like to say that I don't think anyone in their right sound mind would look for a bad guy nor a bad woman , I believe we meet people and many times have been deceived into believing they are good people . And for some reason we tend to continue tozz attract those seem tyoe of characters and becomes a cycle that needs to be destroyed in Jesus name by the power of the Holy Ghost . Post Reply
Prophetesslaura1968^ View Profile History	Is this shady ? Posted : 7 May, 2023 05:28 PM I would like to say that I don't think anyone in their right sound mind would look for a bad guy nor a bad woman , I believe we meet people and many times have been deceived into believing they are good people . And for some reason we tend to continue tozz attract those seem tyoe of characters and becomes a cycle that needs to be destroyed in Jesus name by the power of the Holy Ghost . Post Reply

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