I met men that seemed so in love... Staring at me. Turning their head 180� when they see you with their eyes wide open.... Smiling... Talking sometimes but when you start responding they're done. They look at you proudly or they ignore you. It seems that they turned the page and as soon as you do the same they seem to be attracted to you again. It's getting like a game. Why do they never try with that girl they're interested to?
So...all that is demonstrated in the preceding two responses is a penchant for being prejudicial and bigoted. Quote ...They (Men) are not mature...men are childish..". This is really judgemental; and demonstrating a complete disregard for the realities that some men just happen to find some women obnoxious and some men find some men obnoxious and some women find some women obnoxious.
Personally, I find your (plural) attitudes obnoxious. Consider that perhaps it is your very attitudes towards men in general that have affected your expectations and behaviour and not men's attitudes towards you personally. You are responsible for your own choices. Choose an attitude that demonstrates grace and not bigotry.
Dunravin, everyone is free to express himself that doesn't mean that i agree with what you say. Here is your opinion and i respect it. I don't want to get into a debate with you. But let me express my point of view, i observed that you are being judgemental. Just read all the comments you'll see that other people told me that and i was wondering whether that maybe true. Stop being agressive while writing and take it easy, don't take it personally. I was asking in general.
Satan has inverted the goodness of the creation of God. In the beginning, women were under their husbands for protection. Now society is collapsing and feminism has taken hold. Now men are treated as commodities. You can turn on TV news and see a million men die in war and nobody will blink. Yet the very hint of a woman being hit by a man will see uproar and constant TV exposure and there is a witch hunt for "patriarchy".
Men have been conditioned to fear women and seek their approval. Men lose custody of children in divorces because of feminism. They lose half of their wealth, pay support and can get thrown in jail for years if a woman arbitrarily accuses him of rape and it is so bad now that any woman can name any man as the father of their child that if the man does not appeal the decision within a certain period, he is legally listed as the child's father and is forced to pay child support.
Men are told that they are unworthy and are portrayed as clumsy and stupid on TV. Women are encouraged to be haughty and adulterous and adventurous and "experiment" in their youth by having sex with hundreds of men, race-mix and then when they get tired, settle down with a "beta male" who will care for them, and pay for their children.
Men are intimidated by women and in the old days it was not so. Make a mistake with a woman? Be careful because she is strong and independent and "don't need no man" and will just move on. Lots of marriages these days don't last because the last generations raised newer ones without the fear of the Lord and relationships are transient and partners are disposable.
Don't blame any men that seem apprehensive when you show more seriousness and dedication towards them, they are effected by society and conditioning of it and are afraid of making a big mistake by taking the commitment in a throw-away society. And we are surrounded by uncertainty today.
Trust in the Lord, He loves you. I'm sure if it is within His plan, He will lead you to the right person. Bless you.
I agree that men don't know how to be gentleman anymore because women have become feminist in today's age. But I also agree at the same time that women can't find a gentleman because all the guys today watch porn & they have unrealistic expectations of women. They would rather give attention to video games & their male friends then their girlfriend/wife. They don't know the difference between love & lust. It's truly sad. It's why I have trust issues with men.
I have to disagree with you about the rest of what you said. We have Veteran's day for a reason, ever hear of a Purple Heart? Movies being made about how soliders risk their lives everyday, how much respect they get? I don't know where you live but in my state if women get hit by a man, the man is not charged & is usually released after jail from only after a day. They don't take domestic abuse seriously & the man gets off with only a slap on the wrist, so how is that fair?
Men get a slap on the wrist if a woman accuses them of rape from all that I've read so I'm not sure where you are getting your information from. What about women in the military that have been raped but there is never justice?The men are never punished for their crimes. Try watching a documentary about it & it will show what these women have gone through after being raped.
"Clumsy & stupid"? What TV shows are you watching because the guy is always considered to be the macho guy the player type who can take advantage of women. Or how they make the guy the typical nerd who can't get a date from the pretty girl? Why can't girls be nerds too? Why are they always considered the pretty popular type?
Men made mistakes with women back then because they would always cheat on them or tell them what to do & the women had to put up with it because they didn't have a choice. But I agree that women have gone their own way & feel like they can be independant & sleep around because now they have the freedom to do so but I disagree with it, it's not acceptable behavior for a man or a woman to do so.
I am a woman who loves romance, I am old fashioned. I want a man to pursue me like the gentleman he is. I wish I had a man from the olden days. I believe in being in a courtship & having a man love & cherish you while respecting him as the head of the household & the protector & also being a woman who he can trust & share his feelings with & loving her like Christ loves the church.
For a man & woman to love & respect each other & having Christ the center of the relationship is beautiful. I believe in traditional roles of how God designed each one of us. I believe the man cherishes how feminine a woman can be & how the woman cherishes how masculine a man can be.
A man respects a woman who has virtue. A woman with God given beauty whether she has curves or she is skinny. Being skinny is not the only way to be beautiful like the world says it is. Plus size & chubby women are beautiful too! A woman with natural make up instead of make up being caked on or even no make up at all. A woman who presents herself with Grace & modesty in not dressing in revealing clothing. A woman with a sweet & friendly personality who has a heart of gold. A woman with a kindhearted spirit. A woman who knows how to take care of her husband & children. A woman who loves children & animals. A woman with integrity & dignity. A Proverbs 31 woman.
A Godly woman looks for a man of integrity & dignity. A man with Godly wisdom. She likes when a man knows how to be romantic & make her feel loved & wanted. A man who will hug her & make her feel protected. A man who will listen to her thoughts & feelings. A man who makes his wife his first priority. She likes the compassion a man has for his family & towards animals. A man who loves children & animals is a very good man indeed. A man with a good sense of humor but knows how to be serious at the same time. A man with a gentle spirit but also one who knows how to take the lead in being the head of the household. A hard working man who takes care of his wife & family.
Godly women do not like macho men who use them for sex, who will never commit to them or marry them or who don't listen to their feelings. A Godly man will not respect a woman who uses her body to get what she wants.
It's so sad how people just become objects to other people. Instead a person should look at the heart, they should truly know that marriage is sacred & how God sent this person into their life, that they will love this person with an everlasting love just like how God loves us with an everlasting love. A marriage should have God as the leader. God should always come first & then we will know how to love another.
While that is true, women need to be with a man who knows how to commit to her, so if a man is afraid of taking a chance and asking her to commit to him, then he is losing out on the opportunity to become a man that God wants him to be by being with the woman that he is meant to be with in life. If he is too afraid then he will never find his soulmate that God has for him. But I agree that in the right time with the right person God has for you, you will know exactly how to pursue them, the emotions will come naturally because you will know they are the one for you that you are meant to be with & hopefully all of your fears will dissapear. A man will know how to man up & go after his bride to be if he sees that she is not like all the women in the world, if he sees that she is a Godly woman that he wants to be with for the rest of his life & love her with an everlasting love.
