Author	Thread: Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask..
Teilu View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 29 Oct, 2013 02:07 AM I am quite new to this site, but already I've run into a common question a few times. I have let it be known on my profile that I am a Virgin, it sincerely is my pride and joy. I am 25 years old(i hear that's a substantial amount of time to be walking along this earth these days lol) and yet I get this question: "Wow, you're a virgin? Have you ever had a boyfriend?" o_O' *palm..to fricken..face* Why would you assume that being a Virgin means I've had no luck in the dating department? Have I missed something? LoL Is "is undatable" stamped on my forehead? If so, I'll be needing a scrub brush and the name of the one who stamped it without me knowing..darn ninja.. They and I, shall have worrrds.. WORDS I tell you! Ahem, sorry for the vent lol. Anywho, am I the only Virgin who has been asked this question? =__=' Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 29 Oct, 2013 07:57 PM "I do everything it takes me to present myself a trustworthy servant, that handles the word of truth (God's word) diligently" Does anyone recognizes this line? Could be mis-qoating this passage, Timothy said these words that I seek to find but can't right now. If one knows where this verse is, please kindly write me the specific chapter. Will make time and look for it too. Those are words that fell in my spirit guys when reading your replies. Referring to the initiator of the post: Teilu, DHTM and Apostelle. I don't know if there's such a word as 'righteous jeloucy' but that's how I feel about you guys right now. Your purity does glorify God. Servants who handled the word of truth with such honour. God bless you!! Post Reply
1jon310 View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 29 Oct, 2013 09:10 PM Teilu I have a Sister in Christ who is her mid fifties and is still pure. Has waited for the one that her Heavenly Father has picked for her. The husband has not arrived yet but the things that she has accomplished in her life for Jesus would convict most people of wasted lives. r Post Reply
Teilu View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 29 Oct, 2013 11:07 PM @ sisygirl :: Here you go sweetheart, I went to try and dig up the scripture for you, this should be it [ 2 Timothy 2:15 ] �Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth." I hope this was the one you were looking for. ^_^ @ 1jon310 :: My gracious, that is a serious accomplishment. I'm so proud of her for doing God's work in the meantime! That's absolutely amazing. I esteem to one day be so brave. I get very bashful from time to time and question if what I'm doing in my everyday is truly God's will. ^///^ Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 02:49 AM That's certainly the one darling, Thank you so much!! Post Reply
Teilu View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 09:50 AM Ah, its no problem at all! I'm just glad I could help, even just a wee bit. haha ^///^ Post Reply
Cat4Christ777 View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 10:56 AM Teilu, Welcome to CDFF! Good to hear you've chosen to remain pure this long, sister! I applaud your Christian strength! You may have heard this before, but let me say it again: Please hold out until your wedding night and don't cave after getting engaged. I made that mistake, and have been kicking myself for it ever since. I thought it would be OK, since we were engaged. But there is no guarantee until after the wedding. So, hang in there! Don't let any man pressure you into giving away that precious treasure. Stay strong in the Lord! God bless you, sister! --Cat Post Reply
Teilu View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 30 Oct, 2013 11:42 AM Thank you Cat! I've actually been engaged before, and still was not budging(I can be pretty stubborn when I set my mind to it >:} LoL). Nope nope nope, no entry into this sacred garden, no sir! LoL That brings another question to mind(this is for anyone to discuss if they like): Do guys find it hard to be proud of there Purity? Is it a bit more embarrassing for guys? Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 31 Oct, 2013 06:42 PM I dont know if I would use the word "proud". Pride is a sin. I am very happy that our Father has given me the strength to abstain. I do know that I dont have the strength on my own. I am as weak as water without Him. I have never been ashamed of who I am, what I believe, and I do not hide the fact that Im a virgin. Does being a man make it more difficult? I cant really answer that. I dont know it is like to be a female virgin. I will say that, when some women find out, they intentionally try to get me to fail. When they fail in their attempts, they not only feel rejected, but insulted and very angry. I just pray for them. Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 31 Oct, 2013 06:51 PM I thought for a few minutes about posting this. But it isnt only secular women who get offended. If you read my profile, I state that I will only marry another virgin. Ive had women from this site...how shall I put this...insult me. They have told me that I am not a Christian because I will not accept someone who is not a virgin. The most often referenced Biblical couple is Hosea and Gomer. So, in order to be a "good Christian" I must marry a prostitute to "prove myself". The last time I checked, only God can order me to do that. Unless these women, and they know who they are, are assuming the position and authority of God. Post Reply
1jon310 View Profile History	Virgin: I'm Curious, Why Do Guys Ask.. Posted : 31 Oct, 2013 07:14 PM Apostelle One of the things that I admire about two virgins being wed "Biblical Conformity and God's will most important" is that they will not have to live with the inevitable comparisons with their former and current bed partners. r Post Reply

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