Author Thread: Do any of you guys actually wait until marriage on here?
BlackTigress777

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Do any of you guys actually wait until marriage on here?
Posted : 10 Sep, 2013 06:52 PM

As a Christian person, that's what you're supposed to do. I personally don't think it's all that challenging as people make it out to be.



I'm just wondering if there's any guys on here who wait until marriage or who are at least willing to do so.



You can answer yes or no if you'd like. You don't have to include anything else if you don't want to.

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Posted : 18 Sep, 2013 05:58 PM

@OP:



Don't forget that you as an average woman would typically have half or less the sex drive of the average man, and it peaks later in life too which means you're more likely to be married at the time and why there's less likely to be older male virgins.



This doesn't excuse men not waiting any more than same sex attraction makes it ok to commit buggery, just that whilst you personally may not find it that difficult to resist at the moment, it's a very real problem for many many people, and many including myself have fallen here. The question is, do you personally see it as a dealbreaker or that it's more serious than other sins?

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2013 07:58 AM

I would wait before marriage but would also consider sex before if i know her well and feel as if i can trust her and feel comfortable with her but marriage is a good sign for all those things, if im going to marry her i probably trust her, know her and feel comfortable with her. Adventures, and quick or anonymous sex devoided of any feelings is not my thing.

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Posted : 19 Sep, 2013 05:38 PM

Yes. Actually to answer that question honestly, I might have to put some modifiers on it...my past is not pure as the driven snow. But I wouldn't want to expect any less out of myself than I hope for from someone else.



There are so many instances where sex is just used as a form of currency--a woman feels she needs to give it in order to receive the man's love or commitment, to keep the relationship going, or take it to the next level, when it is meant to be an expression of commitment.



I know of relationships, even between Christians, that have gone horribly wrong and messed up entire lives, just because of premarital sex. I aspire to be as good a model I can of the sacrificial, exclusive and untainted love that Christ has for His bride, by God's grace, and I encourage all other men on here to do so as well.

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Posted : 20 Sep, 2013 05:01 PM

:waving:

I can't speak for others ..only myself, but I will wait. The mind set of sex before marriage is 100% a worldly view and not supported anywhere in Scripture. We are frequently reminded NOT to follow the ways of our 'culture' but follow Christ's example. With every 'encounter' we leave a piece of ourselves till what is left? pieces scattered and gone, with little to nothing to offer 'the one'.

Peter

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Posted : 8 Feb, 2019 05:37 AM

To wait or not to wait until the wedding. It all depends you are a Christian? The word of God says: fornicators, adulterers ... do not inherit the kingdom of God. Hang out with God and before God. There is an eternity ahead and this is more important than 5 minutes of enjoyment.

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