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Posted : 7 Jul, 2013 10:39 AM

Men, If you have learned this or not and most women wont admit this or maybe even be aware of it but here it is.



Do you really want to love a woman? Men



Well all women hate something about their selves. If you discover this and love what a woman hates in her self your woman will find such love from you.



I am talking about unconditional love. We all need this but a womans emotions cause her to hate things and their are things she might hate in you but dont react to her but love her instead. Things she hates in her self but dont try making her stop hating those things. She only needs you to love her when she hates her self.



When your woman hates her self we want to try rescuing her by resolving the problem. This act of yours actually feels like rejection instead of love. We think in doing so will eleviate her hatered of self. Thats not so. Only your love and total acceptance of her will free her of her hatred of her self.



It will free her for that moment but she will find something else to hate her self over guarenteed. When she asks about her body or a question about her self be honest and tell her that you can see that you hate this about your self dont you?



Help her process through her feeling of self hatred and when you do then she will be free. Love her in the process and walk with her through her feelings. She will always come back to you for more if you love her in this unconditional love.



She will never abandon you for another. She will be a faithful and secure woman. She will highly respect you. Because you just led her in love and what does every woman want? To be loved that is all.

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Posted : 17 Jul, 2013 08:17 AM

sisygirl, I believe my post was motivated by the truth, you can see that it is in fact scriptural. I also see the motivation of your post, and pray that you see it as well come to see it/understandas well. God Bless

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2013 05:22 AM

Where did I say that we shouldnt have emotion? I didn't......So why are you reading into my posting something that is not there?



I identified an emotion of hatred that women feel and express, right? Dont women feel hatred many times? Dont women feel hatred for their own selves?



Men and women are vastly different and science proves it. A male child has had the connection between both lobes of his brain severed where a female still have the connection between right and left. We men eith think logically of emotionally creativly. We can not do both at the same time like women can.



Do you deny this scientific fact? What does this mean for the genders? Thids means that men can overcome their emotions more quickly than a woman. Not saying that all men do. Men process emotion differently than a woman does.



My post is about unconditional love and acceptance what are your responses about?



Unconditional love and acceptance that husbands are specifically called to and not wives.



If their is no significant difference in genders then why did God command differnt roles and responsibilities in marriage?

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2013 05:25 AM

When a man embraces his masculinity and a woman embraces her femininity and come together then their is true oneness and completeness.

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Posted : 22 Jul, 2013 01:04 AM

But u know this is a two way street it works both ways. Everyone has something they do not like about themselves and the more u appreciate them for that thing, the more they will love u because it is a sign u have seen their imperfections but have still stuck around.

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Posted : 23 Jul, 2013 04:23 AM

You are right peech, We all need unconditional acceptance.



What I am tring to point out is the dynamic of the head ( man) I prefer to say leadership because does not the head lead the body in all its ways?



The mans leadership in his role to love his woman in helping her process through her emotions. We as men have emotions as well but it is Gods place to help us process through them.



It is a mans place to love his woman and help her process through them. This could mean leading them both to the foot of the cross and many time that is the place to remind his woman how God sees her.



A woman when she is self hating is not seeing her self through Gods eyes of her. A man who is mature in God and strong has little emotion that overwealms him because he is dealing with his emotions as they come.



A woman has so much greater emotion than we men do even being a godly woman. It is just part of your chemical makeup. The problem with men is that they have yet to learn the strength of processing their own emotion between them and God. These men are incapable to lead.



They are often withdrawn and easily angered. They often say it is nothing when a woman asks them what they are feeling. These men are the ones who end up abusing women because they are weak minded men. They are ones often living in fear and because they are afraid to be exposed they blow up. They are also those who are always right and live in this self righteous bubble. They lack any sort of humility.



If you see a man like this run for your life.......They are often very charming though.

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2013 11:34 AM

Letthismind



Dear one,

Your point was missed all together from the word go, hense this ended up in an argument.



People even missed the sincerity of your mood on that post simply because they just always there to oppose.



I have never thought this would end up this way,

Were you'll have to explain yourself what and how you meant when posting that subject.

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