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ChristianArtsy

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Posted : 16 Jun, 2013 10:50 AM

Call me on this if I�m wrong, but it seems to me that It�s not odd to read a brother�s profile where he bibically describes the woman he waits for God to send his way. ____ insert what comes to your mind here. Anyway, I was just wondering, because, well I don�t think exactly in those terms, well I mean, yeah a man who has the character of Christ course, but you know, he really doesn't have to be a Samson at his prime to build on a firm relationship with me you know, he doesn't have to be Paul or Adam. He has to be who God made him to be. So� I was just wondering how you gentlemen view the female point of view on these things. To be honest, I read these things and sometimes I really do wonder if 'some' brothers really understands what it is their ordering.

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Posted : 18 Jun, 2013 02:38 PM

Appreciate it Sandman, thanks.

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Posted : 18 Jun, 2013 05:37 PM

Sandman, With respect.....No



I have been here for years and I plan on being here for many more. This is my home.

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Posted : 18 Jun, 2013 11:40 PM

A woman here was in live chat on her wedding night. we were all it up as her husband slept. I really thought she was was kidding, didn't take but a few days before she was chatting that she did't even know where her husband was. This was her "home", today, they are NOT together.



Positing on a Christians Singles Site course is your choice Michael, but being honest about it, doesn't make it right. We are told to do things decently and in order, (do not ask me what that means, look it up please-several translations maybe) so in future, I would appreciate no consults from you, firstly, I've never asked you anything, I find it out of line. You are not my clergy, my leader, and while you may be my brother, you are not someone I expect to correspond with here, FOR ME, it is wrong.



Its a good thing to feel that you belong, maybe that is why God tells a husband to cling to his WIFE with regard to that "HOME", first place, loyalty, belonging thing.

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 04:10 AM

My wife knows I am here and I share everything with her. She is in full support of my being here.



Where is your judgement of me is coming? It is not of the Spirit of God. I would highly encourage you to be still before God and just listen. Maybe then you will find conviction over your attitrude here.

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 04:38 AM

The simple solution to my posting is not reading them. CA

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 09:13 PM

Thank you Sandman and ChristianArtsy! I agree completely with all you have said!

Your last couple of posts just made me send in an abuse report on LetThisMind . . . I think you should do it to! I have been annoyed and upset by so very many of his posts, that I think it is about time :)

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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 05:35 AM

Maybe I'm missing something here, but I haven't seen LTM saying anything that constitutes "abuse". If you disagree, say so in a forum posting. If LTM hounds you and insults you directly, send an abuse report. I'm not really sure what's going on here, maybe I missed something. There are plenty of people that I disagree with on this site. Have a discussion! It shouldn't be too shocking that some might have differing/opposing beliefs.



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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 11:50 AM

To DHTM,



Yes you are missing the point, and it is such a BIG glaring point that it seems near impossible to miss it.



That people on here are Christians and are expected to have Christian values, so it is not a matter of "abuse" as you say, as it is a matter of sinning.



The person tells us that he is married on this thread, while on another thread he says that he is just engaged or just that he has a "fiancee" if he means the same thing by that as the rest of us do? that is uncertain indeed.



So look and give a simple critique just at his first posting on this thread:



1) He says = "do not be unequally yoked"



As yes - like a married man pretending to be single would be unequally yoked.



2) He says = "Focus more on being available and knowiing what kind of man you can walk with. Nothing else matters does it?"



Something else does matter - as like a married (or engaged or just a liar) trying to meet single Christian Ladies - so yes there are other things that matter.



3) He says = "Just be your self and trust God."



He is not being himself, and if a Lady wants to trust God then she is not to trust some Man who claims to be married and claims to be single and claims to be engaged and claims to be a Christian.



And it is NOT just that one posting as I am just pointing out some of the stuff which you say that you are missing.



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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 07:12 PM

When I was banned before I did violate the rules of engagement here but i am not the one violating the rules here today as evidence by my being here still.



I would encourage you to watch your words of me before it back fires on you because my God is great and He has a way of protecting me. God is my protector and my God has the right to vengence not me. As He says.......



I think you two have invested enough emotional energy in me. Dont you think you should invest your emotional energy into something more positive?



Dont you know your protest has only proved to bring greater attention to me? I am thankfull for your promotion of me but God is the one we need to promote, right?

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 05:39 AM

1) He says = "do not be unequally yoked"



As yes - like a married man pretending to be single would be unequally yoked.



:ribbit:He's not pretending to be single, I've never seen him pretend to be single in any case. Not even one time. His main picture is of him and his significant other.



2) He says = "Focus more on being available and knowiing what kind of man you can walk with. Nothing else matters does it?"



Something else does matter - as like a married (or engaged or just a liar) trying to meet single Christian Ladies - so yes there are other things that matter.



:ribbit:He's not single. Do you have evidence that he's actively seeking to cheat in his current relationship? There's absolutely no evidence of that on the forums, and there would have to be multiple prior instances of women coming forward with complaints of harassment, which he would already be banned for.



3) He says = "Just be your self and trust God."



He is not being himself, and if a Lady wants to trust God then she is not to trust some Man who claims to be married and claims to be single and claims to be engaged and claims to be a Christian. And it is NOT just that one posting as I am just pointing out some of the stuff which you say that you are missing.



:ribbit:It seems that all the "stuff" you're pointing out is still centered around that unproven accusation that he is a liar with ulterior motives, when he is clearly not lying about his relationship status. I've known he was in a serious relationship for a good year at the least, if not two years. You're just being silly, and this is the kind of thing people get banned for.



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