Author	Thread: Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old..
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 8 Jun, 2013 11:09 AM Guys I don't get it. You want a woman... a God Fearing, virtuous, camel quenching woman. But you bash us, we're crazy, we have unreachable expectations, you jokingly create a picture of a barbie doll, running around completely lost and not knowing what she's doing, thinking or feeling, and yet you want to marry one... I know there are some pretty disgusting examples of women out there today, but is there where you should be looking? Not all women have breakdowns, panic attacks and PMS. Just curious, and I'm sure this won't make me popular but, do you sometimes wonder if the woman bashing is an excuse, I mean, you guys are... here... too.. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 11:58 PM Both men and women have negative experiences.Women too have negative experiences with men in these sites and thats why sometimes some don't respond to advances from men coz we cannot tell who is true or not.Some experiences are really bad with some men even insulting us(women) for no reason at all. I think both men and women just need to have an open mind and be positive unless something comes out negatively. And when it comes don't take it that all women are like that,they are not the same.Some of us are good even when we make mistakes we do coz we are only human.And i believe the same with men.The fact that some are brutal,inconsiderate doesn't mean all are like that.There are good men of God. Please guys don't judge us like that. Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 06:57 AM Thanks!!! I do agree. Not uncommon for people to marry and have no clue of who they truly are what they truly need and what they are truly capable and willing to give. Well, that my story anyway. Do you think these issues are our (individual) responsibility to discover/grow in.. Ever run into an old flame and thought.. man what I was thinking... Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 09:56 AM Ooo...this is a meaty topic. I like it! I think the sincere "nice" guys and "nice" girls really get the short end of the stick on dating sites. I would say at least %90 of the people on dating sites are either inactive or arrogant or childish or some mix of those options. Maybe %10 are considerate, sincere people, so that leaves roughly %5 for each gender. That's a pretty generous estimate too. So. It's hard. Your patience will be tested, your hope in humanity will be questioned. With all the inconsiderate, pushy, arrogant, picky people, the average user on here gets pretty jaded very quickly, as I'm sure most have experienced in some way, either by seeing a really picky profile, or being ignored by people who don't have the time or patience to reply to everyone, or dropped by someone at the first sign of incompatibility. It all adds up to a rather negative experience with very few positives, but I can testify that it does work, and one of the best positives is that when you do find someone, they're usually very compatible or genuinely nice, at least that's been my experience(hence the increased rate of marriages beginning online). I've found only 2 women who I've had dates with in all my online adventures(probably 6 years worth), and they have both been worth the trouble. "A diamond in the rough". General advice for everyone, just hang out. Ignore any perceived slights against your honor. Be assertive. Read profiles, start communication, use decent grammar(learn it if you don't have it, you'd be surprised at how important it is). Don't propose/mention marriage or give out phone numbers in your first messages. For the ladies, just a small bit of advice: be assertive! I'm sure that it's probably wonderful/traditional to be "pursued", but it does NOT work very well online. "Online" is NOT traditional. Wink, send messages, add people to favorites, something! In real life, guys can pick up on all kinds of signals, body language, stolen glances, obvious commonality, sparkling conversation. Online, we're just staring at a profile, one that looks like hundreds of others that have just ignored us, and I can speak for myself, for quite a while I gave up and just waited for people to contact me. For the guys, don't be animals, don't be dictators, don't be needy, if someone doesn't reply, I know it's hard, but simply DO NOT CARE. Do not latch onto these poor girls like they're your only option, or like God expects them to reply to you. :peace::peace: Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 11:34 AM Ooo back... very helpful insight, thanks!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 05:05 PM Yep, DHTM's responses are always worth reading! Post Reply
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ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 13 Jun, 2013 03:54 AM Wow.. how many of em are Christians? Post Reply

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