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Annabel_Lee

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If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond...
Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 12:20 PM

Does that mean they aren't interested? That's what I'm assuming, and it makes me sad.

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Philipian

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Posted : 4 Dec, 2012 10:49 AM

DKJ255, sincerely it was a wonderful one you hinted. Really good one, especially when kids are featured in the mix. Again looking at the angle that divorcees aren't eligible for a re-marriage. I guess its human mind at work and also concluding. God does not say so. But we human holds that opinion. But God forgives and gives another chance for his own to make it right. For what it is, its one thing to let it happen once as an accident, then about the second occurrence, can it still be called an accident?

To the angle involving kids, surely, some see a diminishing end of a prospect. They figure supplying for every angle in the triangle (man, single mom, kid/kids) will definitely take some extras. Also if and when the ghost of the ex is still hanging somewhere. Surely in any man's calculation, that may not be an attractive venture. But I still believe there will be some who sees it worth the adventure. Again, DKJ255 thanks for that intuitive one you share.

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Posted : 5 Dec, 2012 06:34 PM

maybe, or they rarely/never get on. These sites generally like to keep dead profiles so boost their numbers. It makes me sad not to respond AND when not responded to. I get about 1 wink back to 10 I send out (actually, thats about my total also, cause I am new...) Hope that helps.. Dan

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Posted : 6 Dec, 2012 05:26 AM

"Again looking at the angle that divorcees aren't eligible for a re-marriage. I guess its human mind at work and also concluding. God does not say so."



Philip....That is not the case in scripture that everyone who is divorced can remarry. I am not publically going to post the scripture because it will hurt many but if you are interested I will share my thoughts with you.

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Philipian

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Posted : 6 Dec, 2012 06:28 AM

"Again looking at the angle that divorcees aren't eligible for a re-marriage. I guess its human mind at work and also concluding. God does not say so."..

Thanks Letthismind2...I cleverly remember I wrote that. However if you want to share your thoughts with me, I shall be good to oblige you to do so. And when you do, I am sure you will find that all your believes are just same pivotal believes I hold in esteem as well.

Really when I talked about eligibility for remarriage, its not an open-ended invitation, where all sorts of "reasons" for ending ones marriage can be excused into its listings! I wrote eligibility for remarriage in view and scope of what the law and Jesus in finality, taught us about eligibility for marriage!



Like you said some things will hurt some threaders here so it understandable such truths spoken at point blank be kept off screen. As said, between us will be a wonderful idea. I really don't want anyone hurt by our sort of topical "entente" if I may use!

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Posted : 10 Dec, 2012 03:11 PM

some time they may not know what to say they be waiting for you to make the first move hun

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Philipian

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Posted : 14 Dec, 2012 01:56 PM

@Chant, had that happened to you? And did you take that lead?

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Posted : 16 Dec, 2012 12:27 PM

If you wink at someone and they view your profile, that is only natural. People want to know who is trying to interact with them. If they don't respond back, they probably aren't interested, or you are only so-so and they don't want to message you right away.



If someone favorites you but doesn't write you, it might mean they think you are attractive and want to keep your profile in mind, or they think you are interesting after having talked to you in the chatroom and want to remember you. It doesn't really necessarily mean anything though, as there could be some bot programs or spammers that favorite people to try to get their attention.

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If you wink at someone, and they lview your profile and don't wink or respond...
Posted : 20 Dec, 2012 10:44 AM

If wink at someone, and they view your profile but don't respond...they didn't like your profile enough to respond. If a guy likes what he sees, he'll send you a message. Men who wink wink first are too passive to be worth dating. If he can't put himself out there enough to message you, how is he going to handle all the actual challenges that life throws his way? It's not like he owes you an explanation for why he didn't like your profile. All you did was send him a wink, and he's not even rejecting you. He doesn't know you. He's rejecting something he read in a profile about you.



If not getting a reply to every wink hurts your feelings and brings down your self esteem, I'm sorry, but I just don't buy it. You sent out a wink. It takes 1/8 of a second to click the button, and you're sending it to a stranger. Guys keep going just fine after typing out 15 messages and not getting one reply. Finally, since when is yoking your self esteem to the reactions of strangers ever a recipe for success?

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2012 08:41 PM

I think that most likely, they r not interested....how many times have we received winks, saw the profile and kept it moving?...there r some cases, very few I might add,...that we/they send messages later....but...9 x out of ten...I believe it's a "not interested situation"....ijs...but...be encouraged...

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2012 08:50 PM

I want to say something about this whole favorite situation...lol. I honestly think its creepy when someone has favorited..I know that's not a word...lol...your profile when you had no previous contact/conversation with this person....smh... Yes, this is my opinion .. I get that, but it's almost like stalking to me....y would u do that?...and still, they don't leave messages?... Now..when someone favorites me, I block them...I mean really?....y do people do that?...lol

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