Author	Thread: What do you feel?
osol_letse View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 23 Nov, 2012 07:28 AM What do you feel when the lady you're in a relationship with unfriend you..? and what u gona do if that's the case..? Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 1 Dec, 2012 07:07 AM Times are when if a man's heart is not filled and guided FIRST by a state of love he shared with his redeemer, he may soon find him/herself at loss looking for love (that is not actually lost) in lost places. If any had "unfriended" me, such must have his/her reasons, be it cleverly or not! But in sense, the love I share with the father upholds my heart and remained unmoved. And that's paramount. That understanding will not put me in a despondent, head feverish, heart-heavy, face-forlorn, and a general sense of trepidation. Like Job, i can say, even though he slayeth me, i shall yet trust him! When this is deep seated within me, I can with all confidence naturally work through the "unfriend" episode, knowing am not emotionally insecure because I had been braced by a love unfathomable! Post Reply
osol_letse View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 4 Dec, 2012 06:50 AM thanx much for ur responses... i want to be clarified if i unfriend somebody is an act of rejection...? Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 6 Dec, 2012 06:50 AM @osol_letse, TO GET IT RIGHT, "UNFRIENDING" SOMEONE IS NOT A STATE REJECTION, HOWEVER DEPENDING ON WHOM YOU UNFRIEND AND THE RELATIONSHIP HELD BY THAT "UNFRIENDED" ONE TO YOU WILL LEAD TO AN ACTUAL STATE OF REJECTION! WHAT ELSE DO WE RATHER SUCH "UNFRIENDING" BE CALLED, GIVEN THE "UNFRIENDED" FALLS IN CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE LIKE CLOSE ASSOCIATES, FAMILIES, CHURCH ASSOCIATES, PARTNERS, AND MAYBE ONE IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU?..UNFRIENDING IN ITSELF IS NOT REJECTION...BUT IT CAN IN NO TIME SNOWBALL TO SUCH FEELING FOR ANY AFFECTED Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 7 Dec, 2012 04:51 AM I would have to dissagree. Unfriending is an act of rejection to a degree. Unfriending a individual that might never know they are unfriended might never feel the act of rejection compared to someone who is close to you. Rejection is rejection and their is nothing wrong with rejecting an individual especially if they are unhealthy individuals that cause us great suffering. Now in the case of marriage this is different. We make a covenet before God in better and worse, for richer and poorer, in good and bad till death do us part. Their is NO place for rejection in marriage by one who does not have a hardened heart. I had a cheating lieing spouse who actually rejected me but I kept my covenent with her twice actually till she was remarried and I was loosed from her. Because I was such a man of honor God now has blessed me with the desires of my heart in a woman where we have complete unity except for physical until married. She on the other hand lives a miserable life.( my ex) God rewards obedience even in the and especially in the most difficult times. He rewards those who put their trust in Him than their own emotions and desires. Relationships are difficult work and they have many emotional pitfalls that cause us suffering even the good ones. The beautiful thing is when you work through hurts and understand eachother this builds a greater bond and deeper love. This is our reward for being people who follow after God. Those who choose to hide and hold resentments will never have the precious gift of love until they have a change of heart and mind. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 7 Dec, 2012 10:47 AM I said - "TO GET IT RIGHT, "UNFRIENDING" SOMEONE IS NOT A STATE REJECTION, HOWEVER DEPENDING ON WHOM YOU UNFRIENDED AND THE RELATIONSHIP HELD BY THAT "UNFRIENDED" ONE TO YOU WILL LEAD TO AN ACTUAL STATE OF REJECTION!" You said - "I would have to dissagree. Unfriending is an act of rejection to a degree. Unfriending a individual that might never know they are unfriended might never feel the act of rejection compared to someone who is close to you" Please shadow the first paragraph of your comments within the first paragraph of my comments. Would you still disagree? Again your second paragraph reads ""Rejection is rejection and their is nothing wrong with rejecting an individual especially if they are unhealthy individuals that cause us great suffering." Please lift your second paragraph and fit into the first paragraph of my comments still. Then you should have no reason(s) to disagree. Proceed to loop insert your quoted second paragraph into my second paragraph, will you still disagree? You said - "Rejection is rejection and their is nothing wrong with rejecting an individual especially if they are unhealthy individuals that cause us great suffering." How far aparts are those two sentences by you and I? You used the term "UNHEALTHY INDIVIDUAL", I used "DEPENDING ON WHOM YOU UNFRIENDED" How far apart are they? Should you still "have to disagree"? I ask? I really don't see anything to disagree with. And if i ask you, why would you say rejection is rejection, when earlier you had to add the clause "to a degree"? If rejection is rejection, there should be no status of degree! Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 8 Dec, 2012 05:25 AM Phili, Sorry if I missunderstood you. What I was trying to say was people can feel rejection even when someone is not trying to reject them. Rejection is rejection the degree that matters is how a individual feels about being rejected. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 8 Dec, 2012 10:26 AM Letthismind2, thanks for stating it welll. Thanks for bridging the understanding. Its truly appreciated. I believe in you brother and please accept and be assured of my deepest esteem. Philipian Post Reply
osol_letse View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 8 Dec, 2012 08:32 PM thnx much for response guys....i really appreciate it.. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	What do you feel? Posted : 9 Dec, 2012 12:51 AM @Osol_letse, you are welcome.... Post Reply

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