Author	Thread: You guys confuse me...lol
heatherqberry View Profile History	You guys confuse me...lol Posted : 21 Nov, 2012 08:15 AM Ok, so I know us ladies can be confusing to you guys at times, but the door definitely swings both ways!! lol. For instance, I have had a few different guys on here initiate a conversation or wink with me. As soon as I message them back, with a casual "hi, how are you?" I either don't hear from them, or they will message me once and then not again. One guy made the first move in saying hi to me and showering me with compliments. All signs pointed to him being interested in getting to know me, including the fact that after a few messages he asked for my number so he could "text or call and get to know me better" (as he quoted). I finally caved and gave him my number, only to never hear from him again lol!! I mean, it's certainly no loss to me! I am not on here because I "need" a guy to complete me or whatever...only God can complete you. I guess I am just baffled at the "indecisiveness", if that's what it is, of some of the guys on here. Why make all the effort to message a girl and make her think you're interested in her if you have no intention of following through?! lol! Are these just mind games? Are these guys just not taking this seriously? or are they just thinking they are interested and then freak?! Or maybe the guys just don't really know what they want...ANY IDEAS???! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	You guys confuse me...lol Posted : 20 Dec, 2012 10:55 AM The simple answer is that there are a lot of guys out there, and this website seems to attract some real winners. There is also the possibility that a number of these guys choose to pursue another woman who responded to their message. Either things have legitimately gotten more serious, or they just may be more interested in the other woman and don't feel comfortable messaging two or three at the same time. Heck, some may not have read your whole profile the first time they responded and later found something that was a deal breaker for them. None of that really should matter though. Keep putting yourself out there as authentically as possible, and you'll find a guy who is genuinely interested in you, whether that's online or in person. Post Reply

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