Author	Thread: Ask a guy? Ok... Help?
Admin	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 13 Sep, 2012 10:56 PM Okay so guys how does one deal with this type of scenario; Girl likes guy, girl has no idea if guy likes her.Girls friend's thinks he does but he does not act like a guy who's interested, possibility exists he doesn't know how to approach her and has no idea she likes him. Does she approach him or leave things be and see where they lead? Post Reply
Captainplanet View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 18 Sep, 2012 07:28 AM Well chances are he may not be very open to reveal his feelings, or he might be very shy. There can be many possibilities as to why he isn't making the first step. A good idea might be to kind of draw him out by making some of the first initial moves to make him comfortable (as some people mentioned, social outings etc..). Just as long as the girl is not chasing him. Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 19 Sep, 2012 05:27 PM Just because you guys might think each other are physically attractive isn't a reason to start a relationship or plan on marriage happening. Let's face it- look at what happens with movie stars: Two attractive people that giggle and smile around each other, and then a year later they are divorced. If you want to explore your scenario more, hang out with the guy more, and don't be afraid to ask him to hang out sometime. BUT, at the same time, make a list of who you are and where you want to go in life (and where a guy would generally need to be going to go with you), and then make a list of what you need and want in a guy. Be serious, as if this was going to be the father and raiser of your children, you probably would want to be choosy. Then, as you get to know him, look for the traits, beliefs, and etc about him that tell you whether he fits your list or not. It might take time to start to see who this guy really is, but if you don't get past the wooshie gooshie feelings to see who he really is, then you could be left disappointed later if you find out that he wasn't really that great and that it was just the chemicals in your brain making you feel good around him. And no, "He likes to get me little gifts" doesn't necessarily count as good marriage material. Lots of guys who think they are in love will buy a girlfriend stuff, but sometimes the gift buying fades away after marriage when real life starts to set in more. Again, it's wise to be choosy and to take your time. Marriage is forever, but waiting doesn't cost that much. Post Reply
KiwiMav View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 30 Sep, 2012 01:49 PM I the Man Booyah!!! Or rather I think that the man should initiate and approach the lady. But, research would say that it is actually the Ladies who initiate! But how can this be??? We are the ones that must dive through head first it seems? Supposedly in 80-90% of relationships ladies initiate throguh body language and men respond to this, build up courage and engage. So my advice would be to encourage him when you see him, a glance of the eyes or whatever speak to your chicky babe friends. If he isn't man enough, well then I guess I would say that is up to you. Perhaps though if everyones friends know that you like each other, tell his friends to tell him to man-up. XD Post Reply
cowboybuck1969 View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 3 Oct, 2012 12:52 PM Although it's a generalization, I'm sure there are real names and faces associated with these individuals. This sounds a bit like a situation where either this fellow is reluctant to speak his true thoughts or he's just not interested. If you are that girl, don't get your hopes up... but keep trying to break thru with small talk if you don't want to reveal too much of your hand.... or just be bold and say it. Carrying false optimism isn't helping anyone here. Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 14 Oct, 2012 02:26 PM I always cringe when I hear about women wanting to approach men....I have found that when you open that door it continues in the relationship and (future) marriage......personally I think girl should move on and pray about her future relationships! Post Reply

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