Author	Thread: Confused between men and women???
Admin	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 16 Aug, 2012 02:37 AM This is ridiculous and very funny. Its about when a man called me lesbian,confused between men and women as I just won't talk about sex,physical intimacy before marriage. Why are men just so shallow and lustful? Where are the men after God's own heart ,who knows what comes first and what comes next? Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 16 Aug, 2012 06:28 PM Brilliant idea Apostelle. Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 16 Aug, 2012 10:07 PM I just won't talk about sex,physical intimacy before marriage. Why Not? its as much a part of life as is the weather,breakfast,health,hobbies,favorite colors,theology..... Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 06:34 AM @Peace... You are digging unecessarily. I won't go to further details. But I would just say Decency and Modesty calls to real christians. Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 10:03 AM Its actually very simple peacenic. Because talking about it can bring up lusts of the flesh. Even if you do not commit the act, to do so in your heart is as much of a sin as the actual act. Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 01:37 PM It depends on the questions being asked and the reasoning. If the questions are "preferences in styles" with regards to physical intimacy, then I clearly think that is a perversion. Now, if the question is "do you believe in pre-marital sex" or "do you have any sexually transmitted diseases" then I can make a case that it's quite alright to ask/answer these questions. Overall, we should still be completely respectful of the other person's wishes... even if we can completely justify wanting to know them (STD question). If they prefer not to answer, we have the free will to continue talking to them and get over the fact they won't disclose the information or we can move on. It's pretty simple. Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 04:22 PM a persons insecurity with there sexuality is not a just measure another persons level of decency.... Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 04:34 PM I agree with the STD point Crayola. Of course, if they wouldnt answer, it would be best to leave. There is no need in paying Russian Roulette with you life. @peacenic Its not insecurities, its a matter of not putting yourself in a situation to sin, be it an physical sin of the flesh or a sin of the heart/mind (lust). Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 04:36 PM Only if a man is my Fiancee, I would talk about everything from A-Z and be very observant of his responses. Many men are frigit and I never want that kind for a husband. lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 04:55 PM Apostelle, please brother remember this is ask a guy, i did not come here posting sex topic,i merely replied.... as i see it,it is not a matter of sex,it is a matter of communication, the financially secure can boldly discuss money where the poverty stricken maybe nervous,so indeed it is a matter of refusal to discuss insecurities regardless of the topic.... so if You feel talking or reading about sex is evil? You best never open Your bible again cause there is lotsa sex talked about in those books.... Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Confused between men and women??? Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 05:01 PM Peacenic. But as Christians, we must take others into consideration. What if the person you are talking to is not as secure? It is a matter of not tempting others. Would you ask a woman to walk through a bad neighborhood, at 2am in the morning, carrying a large sum of cash? Would you say she should be able to do so safely because you have had hand to hand training or carry a firearm? If you would not put someone into a situation where they could be physically harmed, why would you put someone in a situation where they could be spirtually harmed? Post Reply

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