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WHY DON'T GUYS SEND ME ANY FRIGGIN MSGS!!!
Posted : 29 Jan, 2012 07:20 PM

Ever since I started using this site I have received very few msgs

In comparison to the number of males who view my profile.



I'm really confused.....



Looking for answers, maybe I should just delete this thing... Sigh, so much for online dating.....

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Posted : 31 Jan, 2012 07:53 AM

Maybe Yeshua is teaching you to trust Him to bring you to the man He has raised to be with you.



Shalom

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Posted : 31 Jan, 2012 02:37 PM

@IODC Ive been contacted by 3 women from the US. Ive been contacted by more than 100 women from western Europe and Asia. Its just my personal opinion, but it seems American women, even Christian ones, are looking for "pretty boys" with fat wallets. Im willing to go anywhere God sends me. But I am also very very careful about scammers and those only wanting a visa.

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Posted : 31 Jan, 2012 05:07 PM

@devotedandtrue

'K... not really sure what that has to do with anything or why it was directed at me.

But as long as we're sharing, I think American women are pretty decent on the whole. At least the ones I've, met including the one in Sacramento.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2012 02:00 PM

Try not to take it personally, Blessed. I'm not online dating veteran nor expert, but try not to worry. At our age, it's easy to really want to 'make things happen', but trust God. The way I see it, is I'm open to wherever God wants, so I've done my bit by putting a profile up, and He can use it if He chooses. I completely understand that it can be hurtful when someone doesn't reply, but please don't take it to heart - I think you're profile's lovely.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2012 03:36 PM

IODC. It was a follow up to my other post about following God's lead, even if the Christian has to go a long way to find the one He intends for you.



As for why I adressed you, because you were the one who made going to Sacremento seem as if was the same as travelling to Antarctica by canoe...or maybe that was just the impression I received.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2012 10:59 PM

i would send you a msg if I were in your age range

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Posted : 3 Feb, 2012 08:16 AM

some times it takes awhile to get noticed.

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Posted : 4 Feb, 2012 09:32 PM

I see nothing wrong with your profile. You mention a lot of good things that should push the one's you don't want contacting you away. If you wrote nothing in your profile I bet you would get a lot more messages. You have standards keep to them miss. That is my two cents. Keep up the good works and God Bless.

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Posted : 5 Feb, 2012 11:45 AM

I understand what you mean.I have had the same situation.My first adventure was a paid site,Christian Mingle.I had the same response there that I have had so far here.I was there for 3 months and let my subscription expire the end of January.I never expected to meet my "soul mate" but had hoped to at least make some friends since I am new in my area.I did get to know a couple of the ladies that I consider friends and now keep in contact with via Facebook but the closest one is 4 hours away.It's hard to not let it get you down.I started feeling like "what is wrong with me?".But the Lord has really helped me to realize that my worth and value do not come from an online dating site and whether or not some stranger finds me attractive.I have taken a stand for the Lord and I am not willing to settle for less than I know He has for me.God is preparing both of us right now.I just wish this guy,whoever and wherever he is would just hurry up and surrender to the Lord because I am tired of waiting in him,lol.Just keep your eyes on the Lord sister.Rest in Him and He will do for you what no man can do.

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2012 10:04 PM

Well let's start with the obvious. Your opening statement is "I am a very positive, energetic, woman seeking new friends." Guy's take the "new friends" part as meaning "I don't want a relationship but I do want to email/IM?text you a hundred times with no commitment. So dump that line.



MOST IMPORTANT....Drop any of the negatives from your profile. Don't tell us what you "don't do"...tell us what you do and why you do it. You don't come off as very unpositive which is the exact opposite of your opening line. I mean there are thousand of things I don't do like bull fighting, playing arena football, jello wrestling....the list goes on.



Stay positive and show passion. :)



Love is out there. Find it. :)

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