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"Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds," "Voluptuous," "BBW" = Unattractive???
Posted : 21 Jan, 2012 07:33 PM

Hello guys!



So, here's the deal. I like my fuller figure. I work out and eat healthily.



The problem?



I have trouble finding guys who have the same appreciation for my body type. My friends who are thinner are married or in relationships, while those with fuller figures like myself are single.



What's up with that?

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 07:35 PM

I don't think it has anything to do with how curvy or skinny you are.I think that it has more to do with God's timing and HIS perfect match for you. So as the saying goes let go and let God!!!

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Posted : 23 Jan, 2012 08:39 PM

I personally like a woman with a full figure. Can't date skinny girls. Granted I'm a skinny guy, but not by choice. Born with a high metabolism, toss in running track pretty hard for 6 years, my body got conditioned to burn through food. Now, I don't run anymore due to injuries, but those injuries caused complications that spiked my metabolism even more. So, I'm 6'1 and I weigh barely 150. I am one skinny dude.



That being said though, I prefer women who actually have some shape to their body, skinny girls are just, well...skinny. They look exactly same from head to toe, with no hips or anything! It's just not right. On the other hand though, being completely overweight to me is also gross. I love women that are comfortable knowing they're not a size 0, but if you can't bend down to touch your toes or the floor, or get winded pretty easy, there's a problem on the other side too, health-wise. And the only major reason it concerns me is because I'm young and I'm not slowing down any time soon. :)

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Posted : 24 Jan, 2012 05:38 AM

Yes - I know what you mean! And I don't know an answer to that, except that to assure you that YOU aren't the problem, and that guys are way too passive when it comes to asking women out. I hear you on wanting just a fun, casual date!

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Posted : 24 Jan, 2012 05:41 AM

Nickel, would it be possible for you to affirm the OP without insulting skinny girls? I have a dear friend who is a size 00 for the same reasons you say you're skinny (no matter what junk she eats, she can't gain weight). She is no less of a woman any more than someone who is average weight or overweight. It goes both ways.



And her eating habits are just as lousy and unhealthy, so the health factor really shouldn't only be something brought up in discussions like this. I know lots of unhealthy, low-endurance skinny people.

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Posted : 24 Jan, 2012 06:39 AM

You're right I should have clarified, it's not the ones who are skinny by force of body, but the women, and men alike, that think being as small as possible is healthy and attractive.



I would much rather go for a Marilyn Monroe than a supermodel girl, that's what I was getting at. Apologies for any offense ladies :)

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Posted : 25 Jan, 2012 12:41 PM

Thanks all, for your posts, and your honesty!

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2012 06:30 AM

i have a lil difficulty believing noone mentioned Mom in the blog post,whats up with that?

if a lady is a skinny waif,simply find a guy who's Mom is a skinny waif and Your in....

if a lady is Curvy," "A Few Extra Pounds, " "Voluptuous," "BBW find a guy who's Mom is a curvy,extra voluptuous,bbw,and Your in.....

a simple case of enviromental normalicy....

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Posted : 27 Nov, 2012 10:10 AM

I am yet to find one woman, petite, average, stunning, big, slender or whatever went through life unmarried. If you do, its a choice. Its not the body type issue. All shapes always find their "likers". So worry not. It is ok.

Being healthy is the important thing.

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2019 07:10 AM

Who says being a size 12-14 is unhealthy?



All the guys I have met always go for women who are fuller figure & have some curves to them! They don't like skinny girls who feel like they are going to break in their arms lol



So don't worry, the right man that God has for you will love you for you! All the guys I've talked to didn't mind that I was BBW :)

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