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what should I do?
Posted : 7 Jan, 2012 10:37 PM

hello everyone! I really need your help in this matter. Okay, I've met a guy here. I first viewed his page then he message me saying that he also viewed my page and he noticed that my body type was "big guy". So he wondered why, when he looked at my pics I don't looked like a guy at all. So I reviewed my profile then I noticed that I did a mistake in my body type. So I message him back to said thank you for noticing it. Because of him I've fixed my profile. To make it short we became friends and we always communicate. We always chat and PM each other.



Later I feel that there is something that I feel that I think I like him more that just friends. I don't know if he also feel the same way. I don't tell him that I feel that way because I feel it might be embarrassing in my part.



His the type of person who has a very low self-esteem. He told me once that he was used to it since childhood. One time when we chat, I asked him if he will go to college because he was only 23. He told me that his not going because his not smart and some other negative stuff against himself.



He was telling me already that I don't have to like him because his not a good person that I think he was. So I ask him to convince me that his really a bad person. At first he was hesitant to tell. But he finality told me that he always "m*st*rbate". He wants to stop it but he said he can't.



I really don't know how to react and what to say... Do I have to stop communicating on him? Or maybe he was telling me those stuff because he feels that I like him and he wants to drive me away?



I know this is too personal to ask...but I just really wanna know if for you guys...doing those stuff is just a normal thing?

What should I do? Any idea please...I would really appreciate it...Thank you so much...



God bless!!!!

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 01:22 PM

Here's my rule of thumb...



If things don't flow like a hot knife through butter, especially when you're still in the 'new relationship energy' phase, you will regret it once the NRE wears off.



Life is work enough without adding more by choice. Keep looking and one day... BAM it'll just happen.



Glenn

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