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Godly Wisdom and Advice needed
Posted : 4 Oct, 2011 09:40 PM

Well, I'll just tell my story then state my dilemma. This girl visited my church, I'm in NC, she was from Ohio. We exchanged a few words, and left. We connected on facebook afterwards. We've been talking and are currently praying about being together. It's weird, because she's a pretty, sweet, loving, godly girl, but I don't feel "butterflies" when I talk to her. I know that there's a difference between infatuation and love, but shouldn't I at least feel some butterflies when I'm on the phone with her? It could be she's so far away and were not physically together. Or it could be that I'm WANTING to like her, instead of actually liking her. I've prayed, and I've thought God said yes and no. I'll keep praying, but I think one of the best ways is to get Godly advice from fellow men and women... So what do you guys think? Do I WANT to like her, or do I actually like her? And how SHOULD I feel?

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Godly Wisdom and Advice needed
Posted : 5 Oct, 2011 11:52 PM

Thank you all for your wisdom! I understand feelings are not what love is, but I am, admittedly, immature on this sort of thing.. Thank you for the book recommendation Trustandbelieve!



Thank you especially Smili, because I can almost relate completely to that.. The good thing is we are both praying about it. I always hear people talking about marrying their best friend, but then I wonder, what distinguishes that person from just a friend?

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