Author	Thread: This Is Really Bothering Me....
Admin	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 09:04 PM Ok "Christian Men Of God" "I Have Some Questions For You" "Why Is It "Born-Again Christian Guys" are too picky I Thought Us Women Are Bad" "You don't want to date us because we live to far meaning "In The Same State Just By A Few Hours" "You Anyalize Us Way To Intesenly When It Not Necessary" "Men now a days tend to not be raised to be "Senstive To Us "Christian Women" "We Have To Constantly Prove Ourselves To You" "What I Am Trying To Say To You Is This" "Men Don't Think How Can I Be Of Help To The Oppostite Sex" "Men just don't think that way" (I know it might seem I am bad mouth you men but "The So Called "Born-Again Christians Guys I Run Into" "The Anyalize Why Did We Say This In A Post" "And Men Just Say "The Stupid Thing And The First Thing That Comes To Their Mind And Their Mouth" "Why Is That" "I know men have their strong views but they take it way to far...I think that I will die when I meet someone on here or locally that is like "My Brother Rob who "Is The Most Senstive "Christian Guy I Have Ever Met" " I Wish "Born-Again Guys" Could Be More Senstive And Minister To The Young Ladies Heart" "Be There For Her And Stop Make Excuses Why He Can't..."Even If A Christian Guy Is Busy He Can Send A E-mail That Is Postive With Encouraging Words To Say"....:prayingf: ~Blessings~:yay: ~Lynda~:peace::angel: ~ Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 05:35 PM Never Mind Guys...I am so sorry I asked.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 05:26 PM Never Mind Guys....I am so sorry I asked...It not what I ment anyways..."Everything you are saying I already Know" "I don't care if there are differences we are sopose to appreciate The Differences Guys...However,I would like to see "Some Maturity From Guys In Their 30s Though" There are probably a few who "Really are serious with The Lord And Are Compassion And Sweet Loving Men"...(Like My Brother Rob) Who has never really said anything inapporiate or anything to embarass me...So if he can do it then why do other guys have inapporiate mouths then...I am not being pick and don't need to lower My Standards: The Problem is that there are few "Christian-Born-Again Christian Guys" Who are Senstive And Sweet...."They are controling and Demmanding and how some women are they are just as bad as Women..."Where Is The Love Of Christ In Men" "Like I Said Again There Are Few Men Who Have That Sweet Spirit From The Precious HolySpirit" Sorry To "Bust Your Bubble" "I Challange You Guys Out There To Examine Your Hearts And Ask Yourself How Would I Really Treat My Wife"..."Be Honest" "If You Lie To Me And Puff Yourself Up You Are Only Hurting Yourself And (Your Future Wife).... ~Blessings~:applause: ~Lynda~ :peace::angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 05:37 PM Never Mind Guys...I am so sorry I asked.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 05:26 PM Never Mind Guys....I am so sorry I asked...It not what I ment anyways..."Everything you are saying I already Know" "I don't care if there are differences we are sopose to appreciate The Differences Guys...However,I would like to see "Some Maturity From Guys In Their 30s Though" There are probably a few who "Really are serious with The Lord And Are Compassion And Sweet Loving Men"...(Like My Brother Rob) Who has never really said anything inapporiate or anything to embarass me...So if he can do it then why do other guys have inapporiate mouths then...I am not being pick and don't need to lower My Standards: The Problem is that there are few "Christian-Born-Again Christian Guys" Who are Senstive And Sweet...."They are controling and Demmanding and how some women are they are just as bad as Women..."Where Is The Love Of Christ In Men" "Like I Said Again There Are Few Men Who Have That Sweet Spirit From The Precious HolySpirit" Sorry To "Bust Your Bubble" "I Challange You Guys Out There To Examine Your Hearts And Ask Yourself How Would I Really Treat My Wife"..."Be Honest" "If You Lie To Me And Puff Yourself Up You Are Only Hurting Yourself And (Your Future Wife).... ~Blessings~:applause: ~Lynda~ :peace::angel: Post Reply
WHISPERRED110AC View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 16 Feb, 2009 05:24 PM Lynda, I'm not sure you can teach a person to be sensitive. The best you might be able to do is to make anyone aware (guys/gals) to be more aware of the situation. For example; if I see red eyes I might think you may have a cold or you may be upset about somethig and had been crying. The best I as a man can do is to be aware of the potential possiiblities of what those red eyes may indicate. Some of us guys are a little blind in that area and certainly could use some work. Being sensitive to the feelings of somebody else becomes a choice, just like forgivness. Women do tend to be more sensitive because that is one of the superpowers that they have. Some of us guys tend to only see the superficial e.g we see the red eyes and don't consider or think about it being more than that. If a guy seems to be insensitive to your needs or just disrespectful then you have 2 options; (1) politlely let him know about it and try to help him to understand. (2) if he still fails to comprehend that you or anybody requires respect and empathy, (if for no other reason as being another real and human person) then my guess is that you're not going to change his behavior to any significant degree and you should consider removing yourself from the situation. You can't force anybody to change unless that person actually wants to try and change. The best you can do is to give them the options to make a change. Don't know if this will be of any help but that's the way I see it. Hope it does help. David Post Reply

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