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Metaphorical Megaphone
Posted : 19 Sep, 2011 07:58 PM

Saw this on the Ask a Girl section and thought it looked interesting so I barrowed it from Godsgirl:

Guys - you have a metaphorical megaphone and the chance to say ONE THING to all the men on this site. What would it be?

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Posted : 21 Sep, 2011 05:54 PM

@GodsJude:

"or...they dont wanna say somethin that might Hurt their Chances of Wooing a Gal"

Exactly! They are soooooo flakey on here. It's almost like anything you say is just digging your own grave. Like they look at each and every word with a microscope to see if there's any excuse they can come up with to drop you like you never existed and move on to the next poor chump in line. It's just too fine of a line to walk when they just forget or refuse to take into account that people don't always say the right thing sometimes. Especially when you're the only one doing the talking or trying to get the conversation going. And then as soon as you do make a mistake in their eyes, there is no coming back from it. You are done.

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Posted : 21 Sep, 2011 07:33 PM

I lack wooing cabilities, so i put my profile how I want it, say what I want to in this forum, it isn't going to change the results, what happens, will happen.

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Posted : 22 Sep, 2011 11:46 AM

ladies show your are interested in your dates life even if you find him a bore. it is being nice, saying that also let him know if you want to see him again. tell the truth. be interested in his hobbies.

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Posted : 22 Sep, 2011 12:52 PM

I truely do understand Branden...and your partly right...some Gals are like that...young ones...they are Looking for What a Guy has and Not for What he is and Who's he is...Soooo...they aint gonna be Good for you...Best thing to do...as a Gent posted on the Gals section..."Just BE your Self"...ifin a Gal doesn't SEE who you really are...then She aint worth your time...You as well as All the Gents here Deserve the Best of GOD's Blessings to His Children...Just keep Focused on Him...be patient and know that you are loved...xo

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Posted : 23 Sep, 2011 12:35 AM

Yeah. In my mind I know all that. It just seems to go out the window sometimes when I get sucked in.

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Posted : 24 Sep, 2011 06:17 PM

Guys, I have done the online dating thing for a while. Sitting on my laptop for hours a night. Been there..done that...



I thought this site would be different to be honest. As Christians I would expect Gods "daughters" to step up and act like it. I have spent time writing individual letters and wasted lots of time.



But I have also met a few great friends on here as well.



I have been divorced for a few years now and here is what I come to as a conclusion....



Forget online dating...learn how to dance, put the laptop down, get out, meet friends, and live your life all out. Your "dream girl"..is waiting for you to live your life. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who has a life..Most people who date online do not have a life...



...so claim your life and get out there....



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Posted : 24 Sep, 2011 08:13 PM

"Exactly! They are soooooo flakey on here. It's almost like anything you say is just digging your own grave. Like they look at each and every word with a microscope to see if there's any excuse they can come up with to drop you like you never existed and move on to the next poor chump in line. It's just too fine of a line to walk when they just forget or refuse to take into account that people don't always say the right thing sometimes. Especially when you're the only one doing the talking or trying to get the conversation going. And then as soon as you do make a mistake in their eyes, there is no coming back from it. You are done. "



Just so you know, men do the same things to women. I've lost count of how many men seem to be interested in me at first, but before I have a chance to really get to know them, (and for them to get to know me), they disappear anyway, never to be heard from again, with no explanation as to why.



I don't know if it's something I said, or didn't say, or some unrealistic expectation they had I didn't even know about...it's annoying, no matter if you are male or female. No one is perfect and there is never going to be a perfect relationship...so get over it and give people a chance.



So, if it's not going to work out (for an actual legitimate reason other than you're too darn picky about looks), at least have enough respect for me as a human being to explain why.

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