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I don`t need a man...I`m independent..Blah..blah
Posted : 5 Sep, 2011 04:44 PM

I don`t need a man...I`m independent..Blah..blah.

Guys when you read this in a profile is it a turn off or maybe a red flag?

The ladies can comment on this to.

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Posted : 7 Sep, 2011 07:07 AM

Bunny's response was very good.



I do not think men who are independent would put that

they are on their profile.



However, I do put I want a self-supportive man.

I find many live with relatives and roommates on these

datesites. To me that is not self-supportive! Many men are not as fainacially secure and Many women are.

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Posted : 8 Sep, 2011 06:19 AM

"I'm not the shrinking violet type and won't make excuses for being intelligent and confident in my ability to make my own decisions and to take care of myself. I don't "NEED" a man in my life to define me or even complete me. I'm already a whole person. One who is eagerly anticipating the opportunity to embark on the path that leads me to a healthy loving relationship with a partner who is as ready as I am to meet the challenges and opportunities for growth that a loving and faith-based relationship brings. What I "WANT" in my life is a man that I can respect and admire, whose very nature challenges me to be the best person I can be every day. Someone who will celebrate my short comings and will love me not in spite of them, but because of them. A man who treats me as an equal partner, is worthy of my trust and a caretaker of my tender feelings." -- O'Shea (profile)

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Posted : 10 Sep, 2011 10:34 PM

I guess the thing is men don't feel the need to say they are independent and strong because it is evident in their actions.

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Posted : 12 Oct, 2011 06:51 PM

It makes me think she has chip on her shoulder. I never said she "needed" me after all. That wasn't the point.

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Posted : 12 Oct, 2011 06:56 PM

"So why are so many men afraid of an independent woman? You can't have it both ways. You can't say "I want a Proverbs 31 wife" and then turn around and bash women for being one."



It's because she's making a stink about it. It doesn't say she is a Proverbs 31 wife, it says she has a grudge.



And everyone needs someone, really, no matter how "independent". Relationships are about mutual need.

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