As I have stated in my post "farewell adress" I want to leave some final thoughts before I go.
I wanted to share with you fellas some important advise I have learned and that you might find helpful.
*Disclaimer: I think that there will be some of you women that might find this offensive, so I urge caution because I will be speaking to the men unfiltered. :^) *
Perhaps every man here has experienced the anxiety that comes from being in the precence of a really beautiful woman...im talkin those 9s and 10s that make our heart race, but don't be intimidated.
Aim high...more than likley if you strip away the makeup and the flattering clothes, and add sunlight a 9 or 10 will drop a few notches.
I also say aim high because time is not as kind to women as it is to men, all things being equal (self care, circumstance etc). And womens' bodies are put through the crucible of baring a child (a possible advantage to courting a single mom, is you know what she looks like after childbirth)
Aim high, dont take a woman out of desperation, you will just hurt her, anger God, and keep her from a man more on her level that would be excited to have her as his wife.
but in all things take a Godly woman over a pretty one if thats all the options you have...because none of them (or us) are good, and the only lovley thing in them is Jesus...question is...how much is in there?
haugh�ty [ h�wtee ] 1.condescending: behaving in a superior, condescending, or arrogant way
Yeah�you could say I was being Condescending. Maybe it�s Because you Sounded like a Eighth Grader after his First date.
su�pe�ri�or [ sə pree ər ]
1. higher in quality: above average or better than another in quality or grade
2. better than others: surpassing others in something such as intellect, achievement, or ability
3. higher in rank: higher in rank, position, or authority than another
Yeah�you could most Definitely say I was acting in a Superior way. Maybe it�s because I can Spell and Realize that Make-Up is something that goes on the outside to �Cover Flaws or Enhance Beauty�either way � it must come off. When it Does you are left with �(Wait for it�wait for it)
�The Real Person�
As for taking Pride in what I Wrote�I do not. I do not feel any Adult should take Pride in Spanking an Eighth Grader.
mock�er�y [ m�kəree ]
1. scorn: words or behavior intended to make somebody or something look silly or ridiculous
2. something inadequate: something that is ridiculously inadequate or wholly unsuccessful
Yeah�Mockery�that Sounds about Right. Yeah�I was making a Mockery of your Hilarious Thread.
�See! those fiendish lineaments graven on the darkness, the writhed lip of scorn, the mockery of that living eye, the pointed finger, touching the sore place in your heart! Do you remember any act of enormous folly, at which you would blush, even in the remotest cavern of the earth? Then recognize your Shame.�
Nathaniel Hawthrone
slan�der [ sl�ndər ]
1. saying of something false and damaging: the act or offense of saying something false or malicious that damages somebody's reputation
2. false and damaging statement: a false and malicious statement that damages somebody's reputation
3. utter slander against somebody: to make a false and malicious oral statement about somebody
Nope�don�t see it. I stand by Everything I said. I said nothing False or Malicious. I still cannot Understand a Doctor that is so Na�ve.
Other than someone that Underwent a Hollywood Transformation (that takes Hours)�I cannot Understand being �Fooled� by � Hairdo � Makeup � Outfit � Shoes and whatever �Bait� (I Adored that part��Bait and Switch�) (Hey�you might have a Movie there��Bait and Switch��about a Physiologist that can�t spell and gets �Fooled� by a Woman in Makeup!) (Sounds like a �Hoot� to me!).
Note To Self: next time I have a date (if that ever happens), I should go without makeup, wear my most unflattering and oldest jeans, wear an old worn-out t-shirt that makes me look totally shapeless, and just to top it off, maybe I shouldn't even shower or wash my hair that day. That way the guy will have to fall in love with the way I "really look" and not my "false look."
Of course, if I really want to make sure I'm not leading a guy on about my looks, I also ought to make sure I gain 15 pounds so that he'll know what I might look like after having a baby. I sure wouldn't want him to love the "real look," but then be turned off by the "post-baby look."
Yes, I'm being quite sarcastic in this entire response, but here is one last thought for you: aim as high as you want to, but keep in mind that girls might be aiming just as high. Guys can lose a few points too, you know.
Proverbs 16:18 Pride goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall.
Proverbs 18:12 Before destruction the heart of man is haughty, But humility goes before honor.
Mathew 23:12 But those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.
Proverbs 9:7 Anyone who rebukes a mocker will get an insult in return. Anyone who corrects the wicked will get hurt.
Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior
James 4:11 Don't speak evil against each other, dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize and judge each other, then you are criticizing and judging God's law. But your job is to obey the law, not to judge whether it applies to you.
Step on someones toes and you can see what comes out of them. Anyone who looks at your profile can see at the bottom links to this thread and see your nasty words...lookin real good lol.
but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.
Matthew 10:34
New International Version (NIV)
34 �Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.
Matthew 21:12
New International Version (NIV)
Jesus at the Temple
12 Jesus entered the temple courts and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves.
Rabbit,
I Really am sorry that you have been Hurt by this. My Hope is that you Will Learn from it�instead of trying to Justify what you wrote.
God Also Created Warriors. Soldiers For Christ. Men (and Women) that are Willing to DIE for Him. These Men �Tend� to have a �Rough� Side to them and some of them �Feel� a bit Superior�because of The Blood they�ve shed Fighting for you.
Your Mind works like a Teenager (in my Opinion). There could be various Reasons why this is. I Seriously Doubt that you�ve Completed a Degree in Psychology. And your �Assessment� of Women is Tragic. A Mature Adult would �Know� better.
All I have to say is, men like you are the exact reason I choose not to post a picture of myself right away. I don't want to be "rated" and picked out of a line up because of how pretty I am compared to the next girl on the list.
I'd rather a man get to know me for who I really am...not the outside packaging. I am tired of men seeing me only for my beauty ("wow, your so pretty", but they can't remember my favorite song or when my birthday is, or don't care what I think or feel about anything), or others who think I'm "not pretty enough" cause I don't like EXACTLY like their supermodel fantasy woman.
When it comes right down to it, beauty fades anyway, man or woman. We all get old, a little pudgy with age. Both men and women lose hair, their bodies break down and we all get wrinkles and cellulite eventually.
Whats more important? The pretty wrapping or whats inside the package? A woman could have beautiful wrapping paper, and have complete garbage on the inside, stinky attitudes, mean spirited, controlling or manipulative, or a woman could have plain simple wrappings and be a beautiful jewel inside, warm, kind, compassionate, loving, happy etc. .
You, my friend, will never find the treasure in the box, if you're only looking at the wrapping paper, and I find that incredibly sad for you.
How would you feel if a woman were to "rate" you? Would you prefer to be rated on your looks or your personality? Or your character, integrity? Wisdom? Heart attitude? Your love for humanity and God, or maybe NOT AT ALL?
Maybe you were trying to be funny, and I do understand the basic point you were trying to make to other men, but overall you come across as rude and classless.
My Ex was a Model. She was and (still is) a Beautiful Woman. She�throughout her Life�has had People wanting to �do� things for her. Men would literally Trip over themselves rushing to �assist� her. She pretty much Never had to �Lift a Finger� her entire Life.
She was Spoiled�Pampered. I married her for her Looks. I was Shallow. I wanted that �Trophy Wife�. She eventually got Bored with our lifestyle and�well�you read between the Lines.
You might be Surprised -- just how Beautiful that Woman that you will not give a second �Look� because she is not �High� Enough on your Rating Chart � really is�once you get to �Know� Her.
So�you see�Rabbit � I Am the one Speaking from Experience. I �Aimed� as High as any man could and hit �Pay Dirt�. What I Thought was Treasure was Actually just that�Dirt�that I had to �Pay a Price� for.
